DECIDE TO SEEK TREATMENT FROM ANOTHER CHINESE PHYSICIAN

25th June 2009

After discussing with Dear, we decided to consult the chinese physician at Serangoon next Sat. Hmmm even though we heard feedbacks that he is a very YAYA person, but he is very experience about pregnancy treatments. Hope he can really treats my condition and help us out. Well, will go and try it out and update again.

SICK SICK SICK

24th June 2009

This morning woke up and started to have a bad flu. Kept sneezing throughout the whole day at work. Suddenly "every month good friend" came to visit me and caused me to have bad diarrhoea. OH NO so sick!!!

FLU FLU GO AWAY!!!!

SHOPPING WITH MY MAMA

20th June 2009

Decided to bring mama out for lunch and shopping. As younger brother was at home too, he joined us for the makan. And little Joshua followed us too for the shopping spree. Went to the Soup Spoon again haha cos mama wanted to try the mushroom sandwhich. We went to the branch at Bugis and luckily it was not very crowded as we managed to get a table once we reached there. After lunch, we went shopping till 7pm and bought a pair of Crocs sandel for mama and cost me abt $70. ITS NOT CHEAP LO but nvm la cos it is for mama. Had a great day with mama.

MEET UP WITH COUSIN

13th June 2009

Went for lunch with dear at THE SOUP SPOON at Raffles City mall. We ordered a Velvety mushroom stroganoff, Chicken Tikka wrap and Herbed chicken caesar. It was a delicious and healthy meal. After lunch we went to the IT fair at Suntec City. It was very crowded and most of the items were at discount. We walked for about one hour and left the fair empty handed haha. There were also many sales at the individual exibition hall and we managed to get some towels and bedsheets at a very low price.
As the place was really packed with lots of people, we decided to go to Vivo city to shop instead. Around 6 plus, we met up with Jonathan and Jeslyn ( cousin ) to go for dinner at Mount Faber. After that, we headed to Party World Ktv at Clementi for karaoke and it was so long that we met up for ktv months ago. We sang till 1am and Jonathan fetched us back home individualy. Had a great n wonderful day haha.......

CHINESE PHYSICIAN IN SERANGOON

13th June 2009

This morning a regular patient came and consulted Dr. As we were chatting, she asked me wheather im pregnant because i was wearing a baby doll blouse. Haha than i pressed my tummy and said of cos not, it was so flat haha.... Than we both laughed and she kept asking me to JIA YOU!! Than i mention to her i had etopic before so it was quite difficult to concieve. Than she recommanded me a chinese physician in Serangoon. Than she passed me the namecard, omg, it was the same one that my buddy, Yvonne recommanded to me before. They both mentioned to me that this physician is quite proud and he dont like his patients to ask questions. Hmmm, but they said he is quite well known and specialist in helping patients to conceive. Cos my patient and her sister were seen by him and they both got pregnant within one year and now they had 3 kids each. Hmmmm...... will let Dear know about it and discussed wheather want to go and consult him anot.

BAN CHOON WAH MEDICAL HALL

DR CHONG WAN TAT

BLK 154 SERANGOON NORTH AVE 1
#01-434
TEL : 62887439

OPERATING HOURS:-

MON - SAT
9AM TO 5PM

SUN & PH
9AM - 12PM

SECOND REVIEW OF CHINESE PHYSICIAN

12th June 2009

Took half day leave in the afternoon and went back to Thong Chai Medical to review for my treatment. Waited for nearly one hour before my turn to consult the same physician as before. And i realised there were so many young couples who had fertitly problem. Almost all around my age i guess. I showed the dr my temperature chart and she mentioned that the degrees were at the low side even when im ovulate and thats the reason why im still unable to conceive. And she mentioned plus i have blocked fallopian tube and it will take a very long time before i can be pregnant. SO SAD!!! And since i dont have any side effects on the herbs that she prescibed previously, she mentioned she will change to a stronger herbs and asked me to continue. And now have to take 4 times a week instead of twice per week.
After consulting, i went back to Mum's place as i bought lots of food to celebrate Father's day in advance. So fun and crowded with the two little kids at home. Everyone had a full and satisfied dinner. And Dear asked mum wheather she got anyone to recommand to help me massgae my tummy and she mentioned that her friend whom is registered n licence beautician and she is very good at tummy massage. So she called her up and make an appointment with her next week for me to go down to her home to massage. Hopes this massage will also helped with my conceiving.

GAINING WEIGHT

10th June 09

This morning i went to weigh myself and i got a shock! I was 66kg!!! Nearly faint when saw the number. In my whole life i nv weight so heavy lo despite i do excercise twice a week!!! Really miss my weight last year only 50kg. Sad Sad Sad!! Must go and find out whats wrong with me.

WHO IS IN THE RIGHT??

9th June 2009

It was a very hot and sunny afternoon and i think the doctor's mood was the same as the weather. The wife of the patient called up to enquire about simple medical checkup for her husband whom is going oversea to work but she did not know what type of checkups and investigations were to be done. So i suggested that maybe he just need a simple PREE-EMPLOYMENT checkup which no lab test to be done. So around 3 plus the patient came and through conversation with the doctor, they had a big arguement. This were what we heard from the room:-

Patient:" Hi Dr, ya im here to consult u for my flu and throat and as well i need to do a checkup to state that im fit enough to travel to thailand to work as i will be posted over there."
Dr: " What tpye of checkups u want to do? And what are the test to be done? "
Patient:" Well, just a checkup la to say im fit. No need any lab test or what and by the way dun raise your voice at me. "
Dr:" I didnt raise my voice at you. Im just asking. I will not know what type of medical investigation u wan me to do."
Patient: " NVM I WILL CALL MY COMPANY TO CHECK AND IF YOU CANT DO THAN FORGET IT! NO BIG DEAL!!!" ( In a very sacarstic and attitude voice )
Patient called company and ask his staff to fax over the sample of form to us.
After 5 mins of waiting, we recieved the fax and passed it to the doctor.
Dr: " Ask the patient to come in! Ya i received your fax is just a normal checkups and u need to do a blood test to test for HIV. "
Patient: " Well, even if i need a blood test but u are still in the wrong. If you had a bad day in the morning, it your problem. Dont vent your anger on me. Im your patient U KNOW!!! Hw could a doctor shout at patient!!!! SO RIDICULOUS!!!!!
Dr : " Well if you think im shouting at you, than let it be. The relationship btw a doctor and patient has break down and now im telling you i will not want to do the checkup for you and u just leave the clinic!! I have the right to reject any checkups because it does not corncerns your health problems!!!!!"
Patient: " What type of doctor is he !!!! SO RIDICULOUS!!! SCOLD PATIENT AND ............."
( He just keep grumbled and walked out of the clinic )

Josephine and i just keep shaking our heads and remained speechless.

So who is in the right and fault ????

BAD MONDAY

8th June 09

Reached work place at 8.15am as usual and patients started to queue up outside the clinic for consultation. ( AS USUAL FOR MONDAYS ) So Josephine and i attended to them while waiting for the doctor to arrive. Around 8.35am Dr arrived and started to consult the patients.

As i opened the casecard drawers, i knocked onto it and got a cut on my thigh. Ooch it was really painful. The bleeding only stopped when i covered it with a gauze n plasters. OMG i already got a cut last week now came another one so damn sway. ::((

As patients came in non stop since morning, while i was preparing drugs for dispensing at the back, a lady walked into the clinic and ask to use the washroom. Josephine just allowed her to use without asking wheather she was just borrowing the toilet or wanted to conuslt the doctor. As there was a rule set by the doctor, the washroom is basically only meant for staff and patients for hygience purpose. Immediately i came out to ask her was she going to consult the doctor, she just answered YES and walked straight to the washroom. Well, as much as i guessed, she was just telling lies. And after a while, the woman came out from the toilet and pretending to quiry on our health screen packages and said she will consider about it.

At this time, the doctor just shouted very loudly from his room saying:

" Dun entertain her she is just telling lies. She just wants to use the toilet for free. Ask her to get out !!!! "

With so many patients sitting at the waiting area, he just screamed at his top of voice.

He just barge out of his room to check the toilet and he shouted again :

" THE TOILET IS IN A BIG MESS !!! WHAT THE HELL SHE HAS DID TO IT !!!!"

All the patients just stared at him stunned, speechless. And he just scolded at the woman and chased her out of the clinic. Later when all the patients left, he blamed me for letting her use. OH COME ON, im not the one who allowed her to use lor!!!!

And he told me off by saying : " Why you let her use the toilet wheras u should know she is telling lies!!! You should have scold her infront of everyone let her embarressed!!! U are not harsh enough, i really felt cheated to let her use!!!!! " PAINZ!!!!!!!!!!!

What type of character and attitude is he!! Being a doctor, he is not gracious and kind enough towards people. He had a bad attitude and he wanted the staff to behave like him. I was super pissed off with him and shouted at him dun blame me for everything im not the one who let her use the toilet. And if he really LOVE the toilet so much, than just locked it up and dun allow anyone to use!!! I just vent my anger on banging the drawers and throwing things around. Although im also bad tempered, but im not as bad character as him!!!!

He felt so unhappy that i throw temper, he just went in and out the toilet and slamming hard on the door. But too bad Josephine and i simply ignored him.
From that moment onwards, we did not talk to each other for the whole day till i knocked off from work.

MEET UP WITH APPLE

5th Feb 2009

Meet up with Apple for dinner at Shokudo Japanese Pasta and Pizza @ Orchard Cinelesiure for dinner. We waited about 15 mins before we got a table as it was a long queue. Ordered Fried Ebi Spagetti in tomato sauce for Apple and Mixed Seafood tomato cream Spagetti based for myself and a Teriyaki Chicken with cheese pizza to share. We ate and chatted for about 2 hours plus and ended with a delicious Rum and Raisin ice-cream with waffle. Really enjoyed the meal and meet up with her. And coincindence dear was with his colleuges at the Kbox at Cinelesiure so Apple accompanied me to wait for him till the karaoke session end n went back home together.

SECOND DOSE OF CHINESE MEDICINE

3rd June 09

Went to buy my second dose of chinese medicine prescibed by Dr Loh Kin Yin from the chinese medicine hall near my workplace. The uncle told me the herbs was quite mild and not very exp only $5 per pkt because Thong Chai medicial will not give too expensive herbs to their patients. Hmmmm........ went back home to tell dear and he said in that case we shall go to Eu Yen Sen to consult their physician instead as he worried that the medicine is too mild for me and does not take any effects.