CHRISTMAS PRESSIE

20 December 2009

Haha finally got myself a bag for the NEW YR!!! Instead of getting the Kate Spade, I got the latest MIA FENDI IN ZUCCA bag. Although dear pay half for me partly as a Christmas gift, it was still very exp $1645. Wanted to get the Kate Spade but all left with display stock. So we left the boutique very disapponted and roaming around for three hours at Taka just to decide what bag should i get. So crazy right? But of cos i took a long time thinking before i finalised my decision haha. As dear also agree that the bag really looks nice so without any more hesistate, i just bought it. Simply love it so much. Cos long time nv got a new branded bag for myself liao....... ( self console )

KATE SPADE BAG

19 DECEMBER 2009

Yesterday went out with Irene after work as she invited me to the Isetan private. So thought of going there to get some long-sleeve blouse for my Taiwan trip. Alamak, met up with her and she told me she forgot to bring the Isetan card for entry. Than no choice we just went to have dinner and shopped around at Orchard. Mentioned that im fancied a Kate Spade Poppy Fields Nylon Stevie bag which i saw on it website, we went to have a look at the boutique. OMG, it was so nice and i simply love it. And it cost $540 :} So im going to ask Dear to sponser me for it haha I want it for Chinese New Yr. So he told me later after wk we go dw n have a look before he decide to sponser me anot ... YEAH....................... haha

雨过天晴

16th December 2009

Sun, Jonathan msg dear and wanted to meet us up to talk face to face in the eveing but of cos without PJ. We attended my uncle's wedding lunch after my work before went to meet up with him.
Around 9 plus, he came and fetched us to West Coast Mac. Throughout the whole journey, none of us speak up. It was so damn quiet lo. When reached, after getting some drinks, we started the conversation. Dear told him to go and explained to her about the wole stupid article, and he told ask do we knw y she was hurt?? Cos ther was a hyperlink to read about the whole thing which dear dun even knw it, it stated " Love can only be mature through sex" with some pics too. She was stunned, shocked, upset and though that dear was referring to her. She couldnt take it n went into depression and insomia and it was so serious that on sun moring Jon had to bring her to see a doctor for consuelling and on medication. Gosh, we really didnt knw it can be so jialiak to this extend. As she was so sensetive about it. He said she treats whatever dear said or comment very seriously. Why?? Becos they r best buddies. She dun wan to give us a bad impression so wanted to get more closer to us. Haiz..........
After we voiced out all the wht we going to say, anyway he will be going with us. So he told us just let her cool off if she really dun wan to go, than just let her be lo. But deep in his heart, we knew he wanted her to follow lo. So i suggested, we bought her a small gift n wrote her a card cos have to use this way towards a introvert person. And i told them, i guranteed 100% it will works lo.
So next day, i bought a Forever Friends mug and a card for her and met up with Jon after work so that he can pass to her.
And it really works lo. PJ msg me on Tues to thank n apologize for all these troubles and misunderstanding & she will defiantely go for the trip.
Thanks to my idea haha that eveything has been solved. Hope this will be the first and last time such things happen again.
Pray hard that the trip will go smoothly and we all will enjoy it lol.........

SAD SAT

13th December 2009

Super Sad Sat! This time it will be a worse senerio that i cant never expect to be lo. Dear had a big quarrel with Jonathan and his gf totally brokedown and freak off. Think they wont be going to the Taiwan trip with us. Whyyyyy????
Last Thurs Dear had post an article about topics related to friendship and relationship in FB. OMG trouble again. When i saw it, it was about one hour later after he posted. So i knew that maybe Jon ad PJ fdefinately saw that article. And Irene also saw it and msn me and query y Dear wanted to post all this again. Immediately i logged into his account and deleted it away to prevent any quaarels. But nw it seems that it was too late le. Yday, Jon msg dear and in a harsh manner, he scolded dear for postng such things n lead to quarrel btw him n PJ cos she couldnt take this blow and she just feel we r not sincer ppl towards her, and stated that she had a weaker mind and always on a negative side, cried non stop, does not want to be friends with us and wanted to back out for the trip. She no longer can tahan whtever words dear had say.
I know it was dear's fault by posting those things but his intension was to meet up with them more often before the trip so to get more bonding as there was already misunderstanding btw them, but they just simply refused or maybe too busy to meet us up ( WHICH WE DUN KNW THE REAL REASON). And now the situation was so bad that when i tried to call both of them, they refused to ans my call.
Jon msg me telling me all this:
Jon- SORRY JOYCE TO GET U INVOLED... BUT I AND MY GAL ARE TERRIFIED BY FABIAN OVER CONCERNED ABOUT US A A FRIEND.. WE WEE VERY SCARED.... SO PLEASE I BEG HIM NOT TO CALL US, WE NEED SOMETIME TO COOL OFF, I BEG YOU...
NW MY GAL IS REALLY TERRIFIED N SCARED OF HIS COMMENTS THAT SHE HAS TO SUSPEND HER ACCOUNT IN FB... HER MIND IS WEAKER NOW SO SHE CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE... SOME MORE HE SMS HER HER WANS TO SPEAKS TO HER FAMILY THAN SHE FRIGHT OUT OF LIFE, I THINK THIS TIME FABIAN REALLY DUN HAVE THE FATE TO BE EVEN FRIENDS WITH HER... TOO BAD.... I THINK I AND FABAN CAN STILL BE FRIENDS WITHOUT MY GF BUT HE NEED TO KNW THAT WE ARE UNLIKE IN THE PAST WHICH CAN MEET UP HIM SO OFTEN, COS I HAVE TO SPEND ONE WKEND WITH FAMILY AND THE OTHER WITH GF AND FRIENDS R JUST SECONDARY , FAMILY AND GF COME FIRST. THE THING THAT JEOPARDISE BTW FABIAN N PJ WAS EVERYTIME WHEN WE ALL MEET UP, HE TREATED HER NOT BAD, BUT AT THE BACK HE POST ALL THOSE COMMENTS SAYING DUN LET GF CONTROL UR LIFE AND GF IS JUST GF.... AND BECOS SHE GOT WEAK MIND, SHE ALWAYS THINKS NEGATIVELY. I HAVE WARNED HIM NOT TO MAKE ALL THESE N YET FRIDAY HE STILL MAKE HINTING COMMENTS. SHE DEFINATELY NOT GOIN TO TAIWAN AND SHE N FABIAN MIGHT NOT EVEN HAVE THE CHANCE TO BE FRIENDS ANYMORE. ONE IS MY GF ONE IS MY BROTHER, PROBABLY IN THE END, I CAN ONLY CHOOSE ONE OF THEM. SHE CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE AND SHE FEEL FABIAN DOUBT HER SINCERITY AT ALL!
Gosh, to my opinon, i feel that even u have a wife or gf, u still can have time for friends. Ya gf n family r important, but friends r important too. Y cant they meet up with friends and always wanted to have their own world?? And the thing was they barely knew each other for less than half a yr, and we can predict Jon will give up his friendship with us n choose to have her. Well, thats him which he thinks that his gf is everything to him nothing else is important. I can just gv them my blessings, if they really not going for the trip, i can assure that we all were be drifting far apart and each lives in their own world. I nv say that there is no fault in dear, i gv him a scolding but i also understand how he feels becos jon is his best buddy and he nv expect he can neglect or forsake him just becos of another gal. But i knew i had deleted that article on thurs and i did ask Irene to check and she said it had been deleted but i dun understand y they can manage to c it on Friday. This FB also get ppl into trouble too :( Really nv expect my first trip with them was sucha "MEMORABLE" one even before we go. I did msg her to explain the whole thing but she didnt reply. And i told Jon let her cool dw for a few days and try to persude her to reconsider again of going. Is it the gal's fault? Jon's or our's fault? Im also stuck in btw as im always have to crack my mind and try to salvage the problem cos i really dun wish their friendship to just ended in this way neither do i wan jon to break off with the gal or else he will definately blame us for the whoe life. Im really so sad about it..... who can tell me what to do now???? They dun wan to gv dear to chance to call and speak to them, how m i going to solve this issue????????????? :::::::::::(((((((((((((((

REVIEW AT EU YEN SEN

09 December 2009

Yday went back to Eu Yen Sen for review as phsician Xia Rong is back in Singapore. When i showed her my chart for the temperature, she realised that although im ovalating, but the temperature was still on a low side which was not perfect for conceiving, but another good news was that after taking the medication for months, my menstration had become more regular, which im quite confident and glad about the treatment.
So she told me she going to add another herbs in the powder to increase my hormones and temperature but it is not CHEAP lo. Per pkt cost abt extra $3 so i can imagine hw much roughly the bill will be haiz.... and the medicine only last about 20 days before i came bk again for review next Janaury.
So after consulting her, my jaw really dropped when the bill came up to $350 even though i had prepared for the damage price. DAMN EXP LO!!
No choice, i still have to take it twice daily. I called dear and informed about the damage and he told me he will pay for it haha. But still, it was heartpain lo.
Hopefully before Febuary next yr, im able to conceive otherwise i have to go for the IVF treatment which im really dragged to go for it.
PRAY HARD &HOPE MY WISH COME TRUE BEFOR THIS COMING CHINESE NEW YR!!

DISNEY ROMPER

4th December 2009

Bought two baby Disney romper from Irene as she started her small baby clothing business. The moment i saw it, simply cant resist the cuteness of it haha. So immediately i told her I WANT IT for my future baby. Soft cotton fabric which is so comfy for the baby's skin. SIMPLY LOVE IT!!
Too bad she dun have the mini otherwise it can be a matching set.