SAD SAT

13th December 2009

Super Sad Sat! This time it will be a worse senerio that i cant never expect to be lo. Dear had a big quarrel with Jonathan and his gf totally brokedown and freak off. Think they wont be going to the Taiwan trip with us. Whyyyyy????
Last Thurs Dear had post an article about topics related to friendship and relationship in FB. OMG trouble again. When i saw it, it was about one hour later after he posted. So i knew that maybe Jon ad PJ fdefinately saw that article. And Irene also saw it and msn me and query y Dear wanted to post all this again. Immediately i logged into his account and deleted it away to prevent any quaarels. But nw it seems that it was too late le. Yday, Jon msg dear and in a harsh manner, he scolded dear for postng such things n lead to quarrel btw him n PJ cos she couldnt take this blow and she just feel we r not sincer ppl towards her, and stated that she had a weaker mind and always on a negative side, cried non stop, does not want to be friends with us and wanted to back out for the trip. She no longer can tahan whtever words dear had say.
I know it was dear's fault by posting those things but his intension was to meet up with them more often before the trip so to get more bonding as there was already misunderstanding btw them, but they just simply refused or maybe too busy to meet us up ( WHICH WE DUN KNW THE REAL REASON). And now the situation was so bad that when i tried to call both of them, they refused to ans my call.
Jon msg me telling me all this:
Jon- SORRY JOYCE TO GET U INVOLED... BUT I AND MY GAL ARE TERRIFIED BY FABIAN OVER CONCERNED ABOUT US A A FRIEND.. WE WEE VERY SCARED.... SO PLEASE I BEG HIM NOT TO CALL US, WE NEED SOMETIME TO COOL OFF, I BEG YOU...
NW MY GAL IS REALLY TERRIFIED N SCARED OF HIS COMMENTS THAT SHE HAS TO SUSPEND HER ACCOUNT IN FB... HER MIND IS WEAKER NOW SO SHE CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE... SOME MORE HE SMS HER HER WANS TO SPEAKS TO HER FAMILY THAN SHE FRIGHT OUT OF LIFE, I THINK THIS TIME FABIAN REALLY DUN HAVE THE FATE TO BE EVEN FRIENDS WITH HER... TOO BAD.... I THINK I AND FABAN CAN STILL BE FRIENDS WITHOUT MY GF BUT HE NEED TO KNW THAT WE ARE UNLIKE IN THE PAST WHICH CAN MEET UP HIM SO OFTEN, COS I HAVE TO SPEND ONE WKEND WITH FAMILY AND THE OTHER WITH GF AND FRIENDS R JUST SECONDARY , FAMILY AND GF COME FIRST. THE THING THAT JEOPARDISE BTW FABIAN N PJ WAS EVERYTIME WHEN WE ALL MEET UP, HE TREATED HER NOT BAD, BUT AT THE BACK HE POST ALL THOSE COMMENTS SAYING DUN LET GF CONTROL UR LIFE AND GF IS JUST GF.... AND BECOS SHE GOT WEAK MIND, SHE ALWAYS THINKS NEGATIVELY. I HAVE WARNED HIM NOT TO MAKE ALL THESE N YET FRIDAY HE STILL MAKE HINTING COMMENTS. SHE DEFINATELY NOT GOIN TO TAIWAN AND SHE N FABIAN MIGHT NOT EVEN HAVE THE CHANCE TO BE FRIENDS ANYMORE. ONE IS MY GF ONE IS MY BROTHER, PROBABLY IN THE END, I CAN ONLY CHOOSE ONE OF THEM. SHE CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE AND SHE FEEL FABIAN DOUBT HER SINCERITY AT ALL!
Gosh, to my opinon, i feel that even u have a wife or gf, u still can have time for friends. Ya gf n family r important, but friends r important too. Y cant they meet up with friends and always wanted to have their own world?? And the thing was they barely knew each other for less than half a yr, and we can predict Jon will give up his friendship with us n choose to have her. Well, thats him which he thinks that his gf is everything to him nothing else is important. I can just gv them my blessings, if they really not going for the trip, i can assure that we all were be drifting far apart and each lives in their own world. I nv say that there is no fault in dear, i gv him a scolding but i also understand how he feels becos jon is his best buddy and he nv expect he can neglect or forsake him just becos of another gal. But i knew i had deleted that article on thurs and i did ask Irene to check and she said it had been deleted but i dun understand y they can manage to c it on Friday. This FB also get ppl into trouble too :( Really nv expect my first trip with them was sucha "MEMORABLE" one even before we go. I did msg her to explain the whole thing but she didnt reply. And i told Jon let her cool dw for a few days and try to persude her to reconsider again of going. Is it the gal's fault? Jon's or our's fault? Im also stuck in btw as im always have to crack my mind and try to salvage the problem cos i really dun wish their friendship to just ended in this way neither do i wan jon to break off with the gal or else he will definately blame us for the whoe life. Im really so sad about it..... who can tell me what to do now???? They dun wan to gv dear to chance to call and speak to them, how m i going to solve this issue????????????? :::::::::::(((((((((((((((