烦恼

1st November 2009

Recently feel very vexed about our Taiwan trip. Everything had been well planned and we are just waiting for Dec to arrive so that we can enjoy our trip. But suddenly things cocked up.
Two weeks ago, Jonathan told Dear that his gf will follow us to the trip. Its ok for us cos at least he got a partner too. So they went to the travel agency to book for the flight n accommadation, the agent told them that she will need to pay abt $1350 to $1400 for the entire trip. And worse is that the hotel cannot be confirm immediately as the agent need to check wheather there will be any extra rooms avaliable during that peak period. So the agent give a few suggestions abt the hotel. First, if they manage to get extra room, three of us have pay extra $50 for room changing as we will be staying in two different double beded room instead of the triplets room. Second, all of us will have to change to another hotel which there will be no guarantee the prices will be the same, maybe will have to top up extra cash or downgrade our hotels. Third choice, two will stayput in the original hotel and two will have to stay at another hotel. And the last choice will be four of us will have to squeeze in a room which we all really dun wan lo. Cos it will be so squeezy and inconvienant.
So Jonathan just told us he will keep finding for other hotels through website or other agencies. And no matter what, his girlfriend will definately be following us to Taiwan. Haiz...........
But what angers me n dear are he keeps emphasize that we do not understand his feeling which means he realy wans his gf to join us for the trip and if she does not join us, he will feel very unhappy. Gosh what the hack. This trip was already planned and make bookings even before he knew this girl and now he is telling us this kind of crap reason. We really dun understand what is his thinking la. And becos of this issue, it lead to quarrel btw me and hubby. Cos i kind of keep nagging n complaining cos they haven even booked the flight and keep insisting wanting to go. And Jonathan was complaining that the price are so exp cos she need to pay abt $900 plus for the flight alone if they couldnt get the hotel. He still scolded Dear for being selfish and kind of venting anger by saying he wanted to cancel the trip. But in my heart i know that he will definately wont cancel otherwise he couldnt get back his money from the agency. Both quarrel through sms and finaly Jonathan told him that he got difficulties cos he need to pay half of the money for his gf and he was the one who force her to go. I was super pissed off lo cos he is not sensible enough to handles such situation. If realy cant booked for the hotel or not enough cash, just simply dun force her to go la y must be so persistant n make matters worse. Juz one week without seeing each other, is it so difficult? Ya i knw they just started dating not long ago, but cant he see what is the situation like????? And i belif the gal realy feels so bad that we actualy quarrel abt this, she suggest to meet up yesterday night to discuss n clear the misunderstanding.
When we saw each other, dear n jonathan went to a corner to talk and push us away. We couldnt hear what they were talking abt but i knew Dear had scolded him. And after they calm dw, they told us they really couldnt get a room cos most hotels are fully booked esp on Christmas period. So in the end, they suggest that four of us to squeeze into a room which i really dun wan. But since dear has agree to it, i do not want to make matters worse but to agree with it too. Haiz.... really so sian of everything. I wanted to go there to destress myself but nv expect to be even stress before i go. :{

HUMAN ATTITUDE SUCKS

20th October 2009

Juz dun understand why some people are having sucks and shitty attitidue to customer services workers. Im also in customer service field and facing all sorts of nonsence and irratating people EVERYDAY!!!! Why cant they be nice and sincer towards us and is not that they are paying millions of dollars to us to serve and treat them like ROYALTY!

INCIDENT 1 -
At a hot sunny afternoon, one patient came into the clinic to consult the doctor. As Josephine was attending to him, drug despatch came and i attended to him. Juz as we were both busy, a woman brought her daughter in and walked straight to the toilet. From my past experiences about all this "BORROWING" toilet incident, i knew she was just making use of the clinic toilet. After i settled with the despatch, i told Josephine if she came out i will definately questioned her. Much as i expected, she juz went straight to the exit without a word of THANK YOU for borrowing the toilet. Immediately i stopped her from leaving.
I told her off by saying : " Hey, dun u think u are being rude for not asking permission to use the toilet and without saying thank you after using? And do u knw that the toilet is not meant for the public, is only meant for our patients and staffs to use?"
And i walked straight to the toilet and as i have expected, it was in a big mess!!! With dirty footsteps and water all over the floor and water from the tap dripping as she did not turn it off. Its really in a bad state! She just stared at me and i said: " Do you knw u really make a mess of it and its so unfair for us for that we have to clean up the mess for you and worse is u are not our patient! U have to clean up for us before u leave." OMG, suddenly i realised that y im so mean towards her. Was i really had enough of all this people or just purposely said it out of anger???? Haiz......
Situation became worse when Dr came out from his room. He screamed and shouted at the woman and both started to quarrel. With a snobbish attitdue, she threatened Dr that if he got the guts, called the police and arrested her la!!! She would wait there for the police. And he really called the police lo!!!!!! He told them that there is this woman who trespassing to his property, create a scene and refused to leave. She was stunned and speechless when she realised my dr really called the police. Actually it was juz a super minor issue which we could settle amoung ourselves but because of their anger the police were involved. While waiting for about 10 mins for the police to arrived, both of them were swearing at each other. She scolded dr that this clinic was a renting place and he also have to pay the rent and is consider a public place. WOW he so pissed off and shoot her back : " DO U KNW U R STEPPING ON MY PROPERTY!! THIS WHOLE PLACE IS BOUGHT BY ME!!! WHAT RENT!!! UR HOUSE IS RENT LO STUPID!!!! SEE UR FACE I ALSO SIAN !!!! " Haiz... all sorts of nasty words came out from the both of them...
And out of a sudden, she broke down and cried and she called the police again. Haiyo..... she complaint to the police that dr insulted her as a pig, poor and couldnt afford her own house. So ridiculous, i almost broke out in laughter by what she said. GOSH.... do u think the police will be bothered to hear who scold u pig or what????? In the first place dr did not scold her pig at all.
Two malay police arrived and each spoke to her and dr to get the whole situation clear. After the explanation, the police mentioned that dr actually can charge or sue her for trespassing to his property. But dr said he did not want to do so juz give her a warning but it will be recorded as a case record. As in if anything happened to the staffs, himself or the clinic, she will be the first culprit to be arrested. And she just left the place by asking the police to apologize on her behalf. Haiz...... what a silly and stupid incident that i had encountered.

INCIDENT 2 -
No point having such big signboard at my counter { CASH PAYMENT ONLY}
Some people will never notice it and keep asking and grumble about modes of payments.
This woman came in and consulted dr. After dispensing the medicine to her, she passed me her nets card. Politely i told her we only accept cash payments, she showed me a angry face and said " Wow liao, u expect me to go to the mall juz to withdraw money for you ar !!!" Super pissed off lo, what u expect me to do when u have no money to pay??? Waived it, give u free medication with mc or help u go n withdraw???? WOW KAO, talking to this type of people really makes my blood pressure raised!!!!! I dun give a damn as i insited she has to go n withdraw. Fifteen mins later, she came bk with the money and slammed it on the counter and snatch the whole pkt of medicine and left. Sucks right???? What was she trying to show n vent anger on me!!!

All these people really spoilt my day lo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ACCUPUNTURE

Back of me, front??? Privacy hahaha..............


14th October 2009

Got this picture from dear's hp. He had took a pic of me doing accupunture. He realised im so brave enough to bear with the needles poking haha.....

SECOND DOSE OF MEDICATION

13th October 2009

Had started on my second dose of the chinese medicine from Eu Yen Sen since yesterday. OH NO the taste is so horrible and is even worse than the first dose..... more bitter and more stink!!!
一定要忍忍忍和克服它!!!!!

END OF ACCUPUNTURE TREATMENT

11th October 2009


YIPPIE!!!! Finally completed my three days of accupunture. Hope we wont need to wait too long for our wish to come true after what we had done!!!

1ST DAY OF ACCUPUNTURE

08 Spetember 2009

Went for my first accupunture at Eu Yen Sen. It was about 520pm when i reached. Follow up consultation with Dr Xia Rong and showed her my temperature chart which she instructed me to jot down. She said i will be ovulating within this few days so have to worked harder. :}
After talking to her for a short while, she started the accupunture for me. 2 needles on each leg, 5 on my back and 5 below my tummy which the womb was located. When the needles were pricked into my flash, it was kind of ant bits and she placed the electric machine on the needles. After 1 min, i ccould feel my womb was having heat and pulling sensation. But it was not painful at all as i just dozed off after 5mins. The whole thing last about 1 hour and 15 mins and i felt so relax and muscles relieved after the whole procedure when i woke up. Dr Xia mentioned she would has to increase my dosage of medication. So the bill came out to be $205 for the medication and accupunture. WOW what an expensive treatment haiz.....
Friday and Saturday have to come back for the second and third accupunture but it will only cost $60 per treatment.

ANGRY SUNDAY

4th October 2009

Today not working as im going to attend Dear's godma DA SHOU. It was a birthday lunch and we all were invited to the Yan Palace resturant at chinatown. The food was so so only and mostly were the immediate family attended. First thing when his godma saw me, she said i put on weight :{ same old stupid n silly comment which i have heard for these few months. I just give a sacarstic and unpleasant smile back. And she keep asking when we going to give birth and blar blar blar........
Parents-in-law just smile back and did not comment too much on the pregnancy issue!!! So sian and tired of hearing and asking about when im going to gv birth.
Next incident makes me more pissed off and angry!! Before we left after the lunch, i went to the toilet. When i came out and about to wash my hand, a stupid auntie whom is godma's daughter-in-law, stand beside me.
And what shocked me was when she asked : Hey, do u think or realised u grow FAT!!!!
U married since last year, so why till now nv gv birth and y dun wan to have kids ar?(in a sucks and attitude voice)
I was stunned cos this was the first time i met her and she bomb me with such nusience questions! I replied her " HUH , (with the blackest face and super sucks voice) just take it naturaly la why must be in a rush to gv birth!! I was so embaressed becos there were so many people in the toilet and all started to gv me a weird look.
I was thinking what the fxxx, wheather i gv birth anot what the hell got to do with u! We are not related in anyway and i dun owe u an explaination!! I was super pissed off and keep showing my attitude n anger on the tap!! Keep pressing very loud and hard on the tap to show im not happy!
Than i just walked out of the toilet holding on to my tears cos im super angry!!! When i saw dear, i just bear with it first because parents-in-law were there. After they told us they going somewhere else, we parted and i started to complain and curseing that stupid old hag!! I told him if i knw of black magic or what, i will just make her disappear from this world. And dear said im black-hearted and unkind! Shit lo she is the one that is black hearted and sucks till hell!! I dun understand why these people are so damn kpo and feel like telling them MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS and pls look at yourself in the mirror first before commenting on others!!!
Had enough of all these pregnancy and putting on weight questions!!!!
GIVE ME A BREAK MAN!!!!!!!
As we walked to clarke quay, im so emtional hurt and tears just flow down. Dear was stunned and speechless and offered me tissue. He told me she is sucks and no one likes her including her own family members. I dun give a damn to whather anyone likes her anot i just HATE her to the cord!!!

BALLOT OF OUR NEW HOUSE

2nd October 2009

Yeah today is Friday. This morning dear called me and mentioned that there will be new flats at Grange Ave which is near Bukit Merah and it will be ready in yr 2013. We decided to ballot for a 4-room flat. Hope we can get it but the price is quite exp $400000 plus!!! If we manage to get it, parents-in-law will also be moving in with us to the new flat and we will rent out the present one we staying. Wish us good luck!!!!

AWKWARD SITUATION

1st October 2009

Yesterday i posted a comment on Facebook mentioning my colleuge Josephine had bad breath and any suggestions from friends to solve this. Thanks for a few reply n opinions but i still feel very paiseh to tell her as in this is quite a personal issue.
And this morning when i reached wkplace, out of a blue moon she took out two pkts of fisherman candy and offered me too, and i was so blunt n asked how come suddenly she bought so many sweets and she remained silent. Suddenly something struck me!! OMG!!! I have forgotten that her daughter FIONA OH was in my facebook contact list..... OH NO!!!!!!! First thing in my mind was she went to tell Josephine abt what i wrote and thats y she bought the sweets here which she seldom do so. But we both still pretend nothing had happen and continue to work as normal. WHAT AN AWKWARD SITUATION WE HAVE !
But kind of think back is good too as she does something about this bad breath issue rather than she awares and do nothing about it :}