烦恼

1st November 2009

Recently feel very vexed about our Taiwan trip. Everything had been well planned and we are just waiting for Dec to arrive so that we can enjoy our trip. But suddenly things cocked up.
Two weeks ago, Jonathan told Dear that his gf will follow us to the trip. Its ok for us cos at least he got a partner too. So they went to the travel agency to book for the flight n accommadation, the agent told them that she will need to pay abt $1350 to $1400 for the entire trip. And worse is that the hotel cannot be confirm immediately as the agent need to check wheather there will be any extra rooms avaliable during that peak period. So the agent give a few suggestions abt the hotel. First, if they manage to get extra room, three of us have pay extra $50 for room changing as we will be staying in two different double beded room instead of the triplets room. Second, all of us will have to change to another hotel which there will be no guarantee the prices will be the same, maybe will have to top up extra cash or downgrade our hotels. Third choice, two will stayput in the original hotel and two will have to stay at another hotel. And the last choice will be four of us will have to squeeze in a room which we all really dun wan lo. Cos it will be so squeezy and inconvienant.
So Jonathan just told us he will keep finding for other hotels through website or other agencies. And no matter what, his girlfriend will definately be following us to Taiwan. Haiz...........
But what angers me n dear are he keeps emphasize that we do not understand his feeling which means he realy wans his gf to join us for the trip and if she does not join us, he will feel very unhappy. Gosh what the hack. This trip was already planned and make bookings even before he knew this girl and now he is telling us this kind of crap reason. We really dun understand what is his thinking la. And becos of this issue, it lead to quarrel btw me and hubby. Cos i kind of keep nagging n complaining cos they haven even booked the flight and keep insisting wanting to go. And Jonathan was complaining that the price are so exp cos she need to pay abt $900 plus for the flight alone if they couldnt get the hotel. He still scolded Dear for being selfish and kind of venting anger by saying he wanted to cancel the trip. But in my heart i know that he will definately wont cancel otherwise he couldnt get back his money from the agency. Both quarrel through sms and finaly Jonathan told him that he got difficulties cos he need to pay half of the money for his gf and he was the one who force her to go. I was super pissed off lo cos he is not sensible enough to handles such situation. If realy cant booked for the hotel or not enough cash, just simply dun force her to go la y must be so persistant n make matters worse. Juz one week without seeing each other, is it so difficult? Ya i knw they just started dating not long ago, but cant he see what is the situation like????? And i belif the gal realy feels so bad that we actualy quarrel abt this, she suggest to meet up yesterday night to discuss n clear the misunderstanding.
When we saw each other, dear n jonathan went to a corner to talk and push us away. We couldnt hear what they were talking abt but i knew Dear had scolded him. And after they calm dw, they told us they really couldnt get a room cos most hotels are fully booked esp on Christmas period. So in the end, they suggest that four of us to squeeze into a room which i really dun wan. But since dear has agree to it, i do not want to make matters worse but to agree with it too. Haiz.... really so sian of everything. I wanted to go there to destress myself but nv expect to be even stress before i go. :{