CHRISTMAS PRESSIE

20 December 2009

Haha finally got myself a bag for the NEW YR!!! Instead of getting the Kate Spade, I got the latest MIA FENDI IN ZUCCA bag. Although dear pay half for me partly as a Christmas gift, it was still very exp $1645. Wanted to get the Kate Spade but all left with display stock. So we left the boutique very disapponted and roaming around for three hours at Taka just to decide what bag should i get. So crazy right? But of cos i took a long time thinking before i finalised my decision haha. As dear also agree that the bag really looks nice so without any more hesistate, i just bought it. Simply love it so much. Cos long time nv got a new branded bag for myself liao....... ( self console )

KATE SPADE BAG

19 DECEMBER 2009

Yesterday went out with Irene after work as she invited me to the Isetan private. So thought of going there to get some long-sleeve blouse for my Taiwan trip. Alamak, met up with her and she told me she forgot to bring the Isetan card for entry. Than no choice we just went to have dinner and shopped around at Orchard. Mentioned that im fancied a Kate Spade Poppy Fields Nylon Stevie bag which i saw on it website, we went to have a look at the boutique. OMG, it was so nice and i simply love it. And it cost $540 :} So im going to ask Dear to sponser me for it haha I want it for Chinese New Yr. So he told me later after wk we go dw n have a look before he decide to sponser me anot ... YEAH....................... haha

雨过天晴

16th December 2009

Sun, Jonathan msg dear and wanted to meet us up to talk face to face in the eveing but of cos without PJ. We attended my uncle's wedding lunch after my work before went to meet up with him.
Around 9 plus, he came and fetched us to West Coast Mac. Throughout the whole journey, none of us speak up. It was so damn quiet lo. When reached, after getting some drinks, we started the conversation. Dear told him to go and explained to her about the wole stupid article, and he told ask do we knw y she was hurt?? Cos ther was a hyperlink to read about the whole thing which dear dun even knw it, it stated " Love can only be mature through sex" with some pics too. She was stunned, shocked, upset and though that dear was referring to her. She couldnt take it n went into depression and insomia and it was so serious that on sun moring Jon had to bring her to see a doctor for consuelling and on medication. Gosh, we really didnt knw it can be so jialiak to this extend. As she was so sensetive about it. He said she treats whatever dear said or comment very seriously. Why?? Becos they r best buddies. She dun wan to give us a bad impression so wanted to get more closer to us. Haiz..........
After we voiced out all the wht we going to say, anyway he will be going with us. So he told us just let her cool off if she really dun wan to go, than just let her be lo. But deep in his heart, we knew he wanted her to follow lo. So i suggested, we bought her a small gift n wrote her a card cos have to use this way towards a introvert person. And i told them, i guranteed 100% it will works lo.
So next day, i bought a Forever Friends mug and a card for her and met up with Jon after work so that he can pass to her.
And it really works lo. PJ msg me on Tues to thank n apologize for all these troubles and misunderstanding & she will defiantely go for the trip.
Thanks to my idea haha that eveything has been solved. Hope this will be the first and last time such things happen again.
Pray hard that the trip will go smoothly and we all will enjoy it lol.........

SAD SAT

13th December 2009

Super Sad Sat! This time it will be a worse senerio that i cant never expect to be lo. Dear had a big quarrel with Jonathan and his gf totally brokedown and freak off. Think they wont be going to the Taiwan trip with us. Whyyyyy????
Last Thurs Dear had post an article about topics related to friendship and relationship in FB. OMG trouble again. When i saw it, it was about one hour later after he posted. So i knew that maybe Jon ad PJ fdefinately saw that article. And Irene also saw it and msn me and query y Dear wanted to post all this again. Immediately i logged into his account and deleted it away to prevent any quaarels. But nw it seems that it was too late le. Yday, Jon msg dear and in a harsh manner, he scolded dear for postng such things n lead to quarrel btw him n PJ cos she couldnt take this blow and she just feel we r not sincer ppl towards her, and stated that she had a weaker mind and always on a negative side, cried non stop, does not want to be friends with us and wanted to back out for the trip. She no longer can tahan whtever words dear had say.
I know it was dear's fault by posting those things but his intension was to meet up with them more often before the trip so to get more bonding as there was already misunderstanding btw them, but they just simply refused or maybe too busy to meet us up ( WHICH WE DUN KNW THE REAL REASON). And now the situation was so bad that when i tried to call both of them, they refused to ans my call.
Jon msg me telling me all this:
Jon- SORRY JOYCE TO GET U INVOLED... BUT I AND MY GAL ARE TERRIFIED BY FABIAN OVER CONCERNED ABOUT US A A FRIEND.. WE WEE VERY SCARED.... SO PLEASE I BEG HIM NOT TO CALL US, WE NEED SOMETIME TO COOL OFF, I BEG YOU...
NW MY GAL IS REALLY TERRIFIED N SCARED OF HIS COMMENTS THAT SHE HAS TO SUSPEND HER ACCOUNT IN FB... HER MIND IS WEAKER NOW SO SHE CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE... SOME MORE HE SMS HER HER WANS TO SPEAKS TO HER FAMILY THAN SHE FRIGHT OUT OF LIFE, I THINK THIS TIME FABIAN REALLY DUN HAVE THE FATE TO BE EVEN FRIENDS WITH HER... TOO BAD.... I THINK I AND FABAN CAN STILL BE FRIENDS WITHOUT MY GF BUT HE NEED TO KNW THAT WE ARE UNLIKE IN THE PAST WHICH CAN MEET UP HIM SO OFTEN, COS I HAVE TO SPEND ONE WKEND WITH FAMILY AND THE OTHER WITH GF AND FRIENDS R JUST SECONDARY , FAMILY AND GF COME FIRST. THE THING THAT JEOPARDISE BTW FABIAN N PJ WAS EVERYTIME WHEN WE ALL MEET UP, HE TREATED HER NOT BAD, BUT AT THE BACK HE POST ALL THOSE COMMENTS SAYING DUN LET GF CONTROL UR LIFE AND GF IS JUST GF.... AND BECOS SHE GOT WEAK MIND, SHE ALWAYS THINKS NEGATIVELY. I HAVE WARNED HIM NOT TO MAKE ALL THESE N YET FRIDAY HE STILL MAKE HINTING COMMENTS. SHE DEFINATELY NOT GOIN TO TAIWAN AND SHE N FABIAN MIGHT NOT EVEN HAVE THE CHANCE TO BE FRIENDS ANYMORE. ONE IS MY GF ONE IS MY BROTHER, PROBABLY IN THE END, I CAN ONLY CHOOSE ONE OF THEM. SHE CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE AND SHE FEEL FABIAN DOUBT HER SINCERITY AT ALL!
Gosh, to my opinon, i feel that even u have a wife or gf, u still can have time for friends. Ya gf n family r important, but friends r important too. Y cant they meet up with friends and always wanted to have their own world?? And the thing was they barely knew each other for less than half a yr, and we can predict Jon will give up his friendship with us n choose to have her. Well, thats him which he thinks that his gf is everything to him nothing else is important. I can just gv them my blessings, if they really not going for the trip, i can assure that we all were be drifting far apart and each lives in their own world. I nv say that there is no fault in dear, i gv him a scolding but i also understand how he feels becos jon is his best buddy and he nv expect he can neglect or forsake him just becos of another gal. But i knew i had deleted that article on thurs and i did ask Irene to check and she said it had been deleted but i dun understand y they can manage to c it on Friday. This FB also get ppl into trouble too :( Really nv expect my first trip with them was sucha "MEMORABLE" one even before we go. I did msg her to explain the whole thing but she didnt reply. And i told Jon let her cool dw for a few days and try to persude her to reconsider again of going. Is it the gal's fault? Jon's or our's fault? Im also stuck in btw as im always have to crack my mind and try to salvage the problem cos i really dun wish their friendship to just ended in this way neither do i wan jon to break off with the gal or else he will definately blame us for the whoe life. Im really so sad about it..... who can tell me what to do now???? They dun wan to gv dear to chance to call and speak to them, how m i going to solve this issue????????????? :::::::::::(((((((((((((((

REVIEW AT EU YEN SEN

09 December 2009

Yday went back to Eu Yen Sen for review as phsician Xia Rong is back in Singapore. When i showed her my chart for the temperature, she realised that although im ovalating, but the temperature was still on a low side which was not perfect for conceiving, but another good news was that after taking the medication for months, my menstration had become more regular, which im quite confident and glad about the treatment.
So she told me she going to add another herbs in the powder to increase my hormones and temperature but it is not CHEAP lo. Per pkt cost abt extra $3 so i can imagine hw much roughly the bill will be haiz.... and the medicine only last about 20 days before i came bk again for review next Janaury.
So after consulting her, my jaw really dropped when the bill came up to $350 even though i had prepared for the damage price. DAMN EXP LO!!
No choice, i still have to take it twice daily. I called dear and informed about the damage and he told me he will pay for it haha. But still, it was heartpain lo.
Hopefully before Febuary next yr, im able to conceive otherwise i have to go for the IVF treatment which im really dragged to go for it.
PRAY HARD &HOPE MY WISH COME TRUE BEFOR THIS COMING CHINESE NEW YR!!

DISNEY ROMPER

4th December 2009

Bought two baby Disney romper from Irene as she started her small baby clothing business. The moment i saw it, simply cant resist the cuteness of it haha. So immediately i told her I WANT IT for my future baby. Soft cotton fabric which is so comfy for the baby's skin. SIMPLY LOVE IT!!
Too bad she dun have the mini otherwise it can be a matching set.

28th November 2009

Wow this month kind of broke lo cos so many "BIG SHOT" birthday. Last week was my grandma and yesterday was my dad.
HAPPY BIRTDAY DAD! GOOD HEALTH AND STAY HAPPY ALWAYS!
We brought him for dinner at the "zhu chao" stall located at Toa Payoh Lorong 8. The moment we stepped in, there were so many celebraties pics and signature hanging all over the walls. Well they claimed they were famous for their crabs, ok so we had it and some other dishes. Hmmm indeed it was not bad and everyone enjoyed it.
After dinner, mum, dear and i went to a temple at Upper Serangoon Road, to pray and seek one of the hell god ER YE BO for enquires about my previous pregnancy and future pregnancy.
Waited there for nearly two hours before it was our turn to ask questions. He was very fierce in the way he talked to us lo. Mum got kind of shocked by the way he talked. SO LOUD N ROUGH! Somemore in Hokkien which certain words we did not understand at all!!! SO CHIM!!
We told him that we had been married nearly two yrs and kind of wanting to have our own child. And he scolded us for being too rush over this and what surprised me was he could actualy told us im pregnant before but just got something bad i had to gv up the baby hmmmm. He turned to dear and asked wheather he wans a baby gal born in the yr of tiger? Dear shouted YES so loud!! Dun knw is it he knew that dear all the while wanted a boy or juz coincidence that he asked this question??? Than dear told him regardless of boy or gal he also wan. Than after few mins, er yeh bo congrates us and say by end of next yr, we will get a baby gal . Im so happy lo haha but hor wheather is really SO GOOD AND REAL MA??? And he wrote us a tonic list and insist i have to drink once every week if i wan to conceive. Mum told us she will brew the soup for me every week. We shall patiently wait and see wheather all this will come true anot lo.....

WEEKEND

23th November 2009

Sat-
Went for lunch at mum's place after work with Dear. And after that we went down to Orchard to get present for Josephine for her birthday tomorrow. Dun knw what to buy at first cos we have a budget Dr me and cleaner auntie are sharing. So i decided to pop in to OG at Somerset to get small wrist carrier for her which is not too exp. Finally got a "AUNTIE'S BRANDED" Carlo Rino wrist carrier which cost abt $44 after 20% discount. Haha, great deal lol cos i intend to ask Dr to fork out $30 n the balance shared by auntie n me. And bought some other stuffs and spend total abt $200 plus for the shopping spree haha.... pok kai lo......
Sun-
H1N1 jabs had arrived so i told Dear to bring father-in-law dw to my clinic for the jab. So this morning they intended to come dw for it and we decided to have lunch at Kovan after work before we went home to rest cos in the evening we still have to go dw to the YAN PALACE resturant to celebrate grandma's birthday. Father in law left first as dear stayed back to wait for me to knock off. After we had lunch and were on our way back home, suddenly both of us realised we did not bring our house keys. OH GOSH, hw are we going to get into the house without the keys !!! So dear immediately called father in law and they were watching a concert in Chinatown and its impossible for him to come out and pass us the keys. So we have no choice but to go back to my mama's house and stay till the evening than proceed to the resturant. So sad nv bring my camera to snap pics of the dinner celebration n the big lovely durian cake ordered by me haiz.......
Anyway everyone enjoyed the dinner and KTV seesion located in the VIP room.

POOR HUBBY

13th November 2009

Yesterday dear told me he got bitten by some unknown insects which caused his neck to develop bad rashes and swollen ankle. Despite that he still went to sch to revise for his coming exams. During night time before bed, i had to massage his ankle with anti-swelling cream.
So poor thing thought of posting the pics on him on my blog but too bad, i had lend my camera to parents-in-law. So i bought some antibotics and inflammation drugs from my clinic and passed it to him to consume.
This morning the swell on his ankle seems to get better but the rashes on his neck were not fully recovered. Think have to wait for few more days before he gets well.
Hope he will get better before parents-in-law are back otherwise they will surely nag and nag lo...... cos he is their PRECIOUS BAOBEI ma!!

HOME ALONE WITH HUBBY

11th November 2009

This morning, i woke up very early to bid farewell to parents in law as they were getting ready to take the flight to Taiwan for one week holiday. So this one week, Dear and i will be home alone without the old folks haha. Dear is busy preparing for his exams so I will be finding my own programmes for these few days. Anyway i will be meeting Sally for dinner on friday and invite her to my home to chit chat and gossip after dinner haha. And Sat i will go shopping with my mum and meeting Sihui for lunch on Sunday than have to come bk to work again during evening time as part time colleuge on leave. Poor dear dear, struggling with exams n exams haiz.... nvm i will support u mentally and hope u can do well in it without me bothering you for these few days haha.....

HAPPY DAY

9th November 2009

Wow today so happy cos colleuge on leave haha. Back to my freedom. Although it was very busy throughout the day, but still manageble. With her around, i feel more stress up haiz. She will be back tomorrow again and that goes my freedom again.
Yesterday met up with Jonathan and Pei Jen for dinner and went to Essential brew at Holland Village after that to discuss for our Taiwan trip. OMG we shared the brownie with rum & raisin ice cream, sinful yet tasty haha. Wanted to lose wieght hmm but dun care liao eat first than say :} So far we have plannd to go Taipei, Tai Chung and Tai Nan. But think most of the days we will be staying in Taipei. And hope everything will go smoothly for this trip which i look forward to.

烦恼

1st November 2009

Recently feel very vexed about our Taiwan trip. Everything had been well planned and we are just waiting for Dec to arrive so that we can enjoy our trip. But suddenly things cocked up.
Two weeks ago, Jonathan told Dear that his gf will follow us to the trip. Its ok for us cos at least he got a partner too. So they went to the travel agency to book for the flight n accommadation, the agent told them that she will need to pay abt $1350 to $1400 for the entire trip. And worse is that the hotel cannot be confirm immediately as the agent need to check wheather there will be any extra rooms avaliable during that peak period. So the agent give a few suggestions abt the hotel. First, if they manage to get extra room, three of us have pay extra $50 for room changing as we will be staying in two different double beded room instead of the triplets room. Second, all of us will have to change to another hotel which there will be no guarantee the prices will be the same, maybe will have to top up extra cash or downgrade our hotels. Third choice, two will stayput in the original hotel and two will have to stay at another hotel. And the last choice will be four of us will have to squeeze in a room which we all really dun wan lo. Cos it will be so squeezy and inconvienant.
So Jonathan just told us he will keep finding for other hotels through website or other agencies. And no matter what, his girlfriend will definately be following us to Taiwan. Haiz...........
But what angers me n dear are he keeps emphasize that we do not understand his feeling which means he realy wans his gf to join us for the trip and if she does not join us, he will feel very unhappy. Gosh what the hack. This trip was already planned and make bookings even before he knew this girl and now he is telling us this kind of crap reason. We really dun understand what is his thinking la. And becos of this issue, it lead to quarrel btw me and hubby. Cos i kind of keep nagging n complaining cos they haven even booked the flight and keep insisting wanting to go. And Jonathan was complaining that the price are so exp cos she need to pay abt $900 plus for the flight alone if they couldnt get the hotel. He still scolded Dear for being selfish and kind of venting anger by saying he wanted to cancel the trip. But in my heart i know that he will definately wont cancel otherwise he couldnt get back his money from the agency. Both quarrel through sms and finaly Jonathan told him that he got difficulties cos he need to pay half of the money for his gf and he was the one who force her to go. I was super pissed off lo cos he is not sensible enough to handles such situation. If realy cant booked for the hotel or not enough cash, just simply dun force her to go la y must be so persistant n make matters worse. Juz one week without seeing each other, is it so difficult? Ya i knw they just started dating not long ago, but cant he see what is the situation like????? And i belif the gal realy feels so bad that we actualy quarrel abt this, she suggest to meet up yesterday night to discuss n clear the misunderstanding.
When we saw each other, dear n jonathan went to a corner to talk and push us away. We couldnt hear what they were talking abt but i knew Dear had scolded him. And after they calm dw, they told us they really couldnt get a room cos most hotels are fully booked esp on Christmas period. So in the end, they suggest that four of us to squeeze into a room which i really dun wan. But since dear has agree to it, i do not want to make matters worse but to agree with it too. Haiz.... really so sian of everything. I wanted to go there to destress myself but nv expect to be even stress before i go. :{

HUMAN ATTITUDE SUCKS

20th October 2009

Juz dun understand why some people are having sucks and shitty attitidue to customer services workers. Im also in customer service field and facing all sorts of nonsence and irratating people EVERYDAY!!!! Why cant they be nice and sincer towards us and is not that they are paying millions of dollars to us to serve and treat them like ROYALTY!

INCIDENT 1 -
At a hot sunny afternoon, one patient came into the clinic to consult the doctor. As Josephine was attending to him, drug despatch came and i attended to him. Juz as we were both busy, a woman brought her daughter in and walked straight to the toilet. From my past experiences about all this "BORROWING" toilet incident, i knew she was just making use of the clinic toilet. After i settled with the despatch, i told Josephine if she came out i will definately questioned her. Much as i expected, she juz went straight to the exit without a word of THANK YOU for borrowing the toilet. Immediately i stopped her from leaving.
I told her off by saying : " Hey, dun u think u are being rude for not asking permission to use the toilet and without saying thank you after using? And do u knw that the toilet is not meant for the public, is only meant for our patients and staffs to use?"
And i walked straight to the toilet and as i have expected, it was in a big mess!!! With dirty footsteps and water all over the floor and water from the tap dripping as she did not turn it off. Its really in a bad state! She just stared at me and i said: " Do you knw u really make a mess of it and its so unfair for us for that we have to clean up the mess for you and worse is u are not our patient! U have to clean up for us before u leave." OMG, suddenly i realised that y im so mean towards her. Was i really had enough of all this people or just purposely said it out of anger???? Haiz......
Situation became worse when Dr came out from his room. He screamed and shouted at the woman and both started to quarrel. With a snobbish attitdue, she threatened Dr that if he got the guts, called the police and arrested her la!!! She would wait there for the police. And he really called the police lo!!!!!! He told them that there is this woman who trespassing to his property, create a scene and refused to leave. She was stunned and speechless when she realised my dr really called the police. Actually it was juz a super minor issue which we could settle amoung ourselves but because of their anger the police were involved. While waiting for about 10 mins for the police to arrived, both of them were swearing at each other. She scolded dr that this clinic was a renting place and he also have to pay the rent and is consider a public place. WOW he so pissed off and shoot her back : " DO U KNW U R STEPPING ON MY PROPERTY!! THIS WHOLE PLACE IS BOUGHT BY ME!!! WHAT RENT!!! UR HOUSE IS RENT LO STUPID!!!! SEE UR FACE I ALSO SIAN !!!! " Haiz... all sorts of nasty words came out from the both of them...
And out of a sudden, she broke down and cried and she called the police again. Haiyo..... she complaint to the police that dr insulted her as a pig, poor and couldnt afford her own house. So ridiculous, i almost broke out in laughter by what she said. GOSH.... do u think the police will be bothered to hear who scold u pig or what????? In the first place dr did not scold her pig at all.
Two malay police arrived and each spoke to her and dr to get the whole situation clear. After the explanation, the police mentioned that dr actually can charge or sue her for trespassing to his property. But dr said he did not want to do so juz give her a warning but it will be recorded as a case record. As in if anything happened to the staffs, himself or the clinic, she will be the first culprit to be arrested. And she just left the place by asking the police to apologize on her behalf. Haiz...... what a silly and stupid incident that i had encountered.

INCIDENT 2 -
No point having such big signboard at my counter { CASH PAYMENT ONLY}
Some people will never notice it and keep asking and grumble about modes of payments.
This woman came in and consulted dr. After dispensing the medicine to her, she passed me her nets card. Politely i told her we only accept cash payments, she showed me a angry face and said " Wow liao, u expect me to go to the mall juz to withdraw money for you ar !!!" Super pissed off lo, what u expect me to do when u have no money to pay??? Waived it, give u free medication with mc or help u go n withdraw???? WOW KAO, talking to this type of people really makes my blood pressure raised!!!!! I dun give a damn as i insited she has to go n withdraw. Fifteen mins later, she came bk with the money and slammed it on the counter and snatch the whole pkt of medicine and left. Sucks right???? What was she trying to show n vent anger on me!!!

All these people really spoilt my day lo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ACCUPUNTURE

Back of me, front??? Privacy hahaha..............


14th October 2009

Got this picture from dear's hp. He had took a pic of me doing accupunture. He realised im so brave enough to bear with the needles poking haha.....

SECOND DOSE OF MEDICATION

13th October 2009

Had started on my second dose of the chinese medicine from Eu Yen Sen since yesterday. OH NO the taste is so horrible and is even worse than the first dose..... more bitter and more stink!!!
一定要忍忍忍和克服它!!!!!

END OF ACCUPUNTURE TREATMENT

11th October 2009


YIPPIE!!!! Finally completed my three days of accupunture. Hope we wont need to wait too long for our wish to come true after what we had done!!!

1ST DAY OF ACCUPUNTURE

08 Spetember 2009

Went for my first accupunture at Eu Yen Sen. It was about 520pm when i reached. Follow up consultation with Dr Xia Rong and showed her my temperature chart which she instructed me to jot down. She said i will be ovulating within this few days so have to worked harder. :}
After talking to her for a short while, she started the accupunture for me. 2 needles on each leg, 5 on my back and 5 below my tummy which the womb was located. When the needles were pricked into my flash, it was kind of ant bits and she placed the electric machine on the needles. After 1 min, i ccould feel my womb was having heat and pulling sensation. But it was not painful at all as i just dozed off after 5mins. The whole thing last about 1 hour and 15 mins and i felt so relax and muscles relieved after the whole procedure when i woke up. Dr Xia mentioned she would has to increase my dosage of medication. So the bill came out to be $205 for the medication and accupunture. WOW what an expensive treatment haiz.....
Friday and Saturday have to come back for the second and third accupunture but it will only cost $60 per treatment.

ANGRY SUNDAY

4th October 2009

Today not working as im going to attend Dear's godma DA SHOU. It was a birthday lunch and we all were invited to the Yan Palace resturant at chinatown. The food was so so only and mostly were the immediate family attended. First thing when his godma saw me, she said i put on weight :{ same old stupid n silly comment which i have heard for these few months. I just give a sacarstic and unpleasant smile back. And she keep asking when we going to give birth and blar blar blar........
Parents-in-law just smile back and did not comment too much on the pregnancy issue!!! So sian and tired of hearing and asking about when im going to gv birth.
Next incident makes me more pissed off and angry!! Before we left after the lunch, i went to the toilet. When i came out and about to wash my hand, a stupid auntie whom is godma's daughter-in-law, stand beside me.
And what shocked me was when she asked : Hey, do u think or realised u grow FAT!!!!
U married since last year, so why till now nv gv birth and y dun wan to have kids ar?(in a sucks and attitude voice)
I was stunned cos this was the first time i met her and she bomb me with such nusience questions! I replied her " HUH , (with the blackest face and super sucks voice) just take it naturaly la why must be in a rush to gv birth!! I was so embaressed becos there were so many people in the toilet and all started to gv me a weird look.
I was thinking what the fxxx, wheather i gv birth anot what the hell got to do with u! We are not related in anyway and i dun owe u an explaination!! I was super pissed off and keep showing my attitude n anger on the tap!! Keep pressing very loud and hard on the tap to show im not happy!
Than i just walked out of the toilet holding on to my tears cos im super angry!!! When i saw dear, i just bear with it first because parents-in-law were there. After they told us they going somewhere else, we parted and i started to complain and curseing that stupid old hag!! I told him if i knw of black magic or what, i will just make her disappear from this world. And dear said im black-hearted and unkind! Shit lo she is the one that is black hearted and sucks till hell!! I dun understand why these people are so damn kpo and feel like telling them MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS and pls look at yourself in the mirror first before commenting on others!!!
Had enough of all these pregnancy and putting on weight questions!!!!
GIVE ME A BREAK MAN!!!!!!!
As we walked to clarke quay, im so emtional hurt and tears just flow down. Dear was stunned and speechless and offered me tissue. He told me she is sucks and no one likes her including her own family members. I dun give a damn to whather anyone likes her anot i just HATE her to the cord!!!

BALLOT OF OUR NEW HOUSE

2nd October 2009

Yeah today is Friday. This morning dear called me and mentioned that there will be new flats at Grange Ave which is near Bukit Merah and it will be ready in yr 2013. We decided to ballot for a 4-room flat. Hope we can get it but the price is quite exp $400000 plus!!! If we manage to get it, parents-in-law will also be moving in with us to the new flat and we will rent out the present one we staying. Wish us good luck!!!!

AWKWARD SITUATION

1st October 2009

Yesterday i posted a comment on Facebook mentioning my colleuge Josephine had bad breath and any suggestions from friends to solve this. Thanks for a few reply n opinions but i still feel very paiseh to tell her as in this is quite a personal issue.
And this morning when i reached wkplace, out of a blue moon she took out two pkts of fisherman candy and offered me too, and i was so blunt n asked how come suddenly she bought so many sweets and she remained silent. Suddenly something struck me!! OMG!!! I have forgotten that her daughter FIONA OH was in my facebook contact list..... OH NO!!!!!!! First thing in my mind was she went to tell Josephine abt what i wrote and thats y she bought the sweets here which she seldom do so. But we both still pretend nothing had happen and continue to work as normal. WHAT AN AWKWARD SITUATION WE HAVE !
But kind of think back is good too as she does something about this bad breath issue rather than she awares and do nothing about it :}

HAPPY 2ND ANNIVERSARY

29th September 2009

Today is our 2nd rom wedding anniversary. Poor dear dear is so sick and on mc today as i think i had passed my flu bug to him. High fever, bodyache, cough and flu so nw he is resting at home. But he seems nv rest well as rushing through his school assignment. Haiz... so kelian.... We are not going to celebrate anyway haha ... HAPPY ANNIVERSARY MY DEAR!!!!
We have postphone the celebration when we are fully recover.

HUBBY'S BIRTHDAY

27th September 2009

Today is Dear Dear's birthday. Happy Birthday 老公 !!!!! We will be going to Crystal Jade for dim dum with pil in the afternoon and evening time we shall head to to my mama's place for dinner as she will be cooking his favourite dishes to celebrate his birthday.

Hasn't got a good sleep as my fever and cough had not ok yet. Bad cough through the whole night till tight chest and a bit of wheezing. Woke up in the middle of night just to take Prednisolone tab and after a while it got better. Haiz.... dun knw when will it be heal. Weight had drop 2kg after losing appetite due to fever and cough. Gooooooddddd........but not with the illness haha...... Hope can reach my target weight before end of this year 50kg at least.....

SICK

25th September 2009

After a few days of the chinese medicine, my body becomes so heaty and pimples started to pop out on my face and suddenly developed flu and sore throat haiz.... think i will have to cut down the dosage to once a day instead of twice daily.
And Xia Rong physician suggest me to go for accupunture so i have make appointment on the 8,9 and 10th of October for the first trial of accupunture. Than subsequently i just need to go once monthly for it. Haiz,,,,, money money money again cos it is not cheap lo per treatment will cost us abt 60 to 80 bucks. Hopefully it will works lo despite the amount we had spent!!

COLLEUGUE ON LEAVE

24th September 2009

This morning received a sms from collegue saying she will be on urgent leave today as her son was having high fever. So today im alone at work. Informed Dr when he came and he was kind of pissed off and angry with her mentioning that she should informed him instead of me. I also felt so cos im not the person in charge lo..... haiz.... She had his contact number but dun understand why she did not want to inform Dr. Sometimes without her at work i feel even better as i need not monitor her for work matters. Worried that she will take wrong drugs or dispense wrong drugs to patients and all sorts of things la, without her i can handle all matters by myself. Dr mentions to me maybe he will have to let her go once i give birth in future. Haiz... so bad right???
What to do?? He is the boss i cant comment too much lo...... hopefully she can really buck up otherwise she will has to leave soon. Really wish them good luck during this Dec as i will be going to Taiwan for holiday. Hope wont create any chaos lo..... "}

MALACCA TRIP

23rd September 2009

Had upload some pics for the trip to Malacca on 12th Sept 09. Had a new member in our friends group and she is Jonathan's gf PeiJen. Welcome.... haha........

MEDICINE

23rd September 2009

Waited for so many days and finally menses arrived on the 18th Sept. So on the 19th Sept 2nd day of menses, i had started on my first dose of Clomiphene tab from KK for five days course. And on the 22nd sept 5th day of the cycle, started on the chinese powder from Eu Yen Sen, twice daily for 14 days first. So bitter and yukky :{

SHOPPING WITH MUMMY

10th Sept 2009

Went over to mama's place and decided to bring her and the two little devils out for shopping. Since Ion had been open, mama nv been there before so we decided to go there. Walked around at the basement and bought some snacks from the food stall and sat in the foodcourt for lunch. Mun was impressed by the humongous size of the mall but not much things to buy actually haha as most of the things were expensive. We shopped until 6 plus and i suggested that we shall settle our dinner at a vegetarian resturant cos mum is a vegetarian so we went to LingZhi resturant at Novena Square cos their they serve unique n delicious vegetarian dishes.
We ordered 泰式酸辣素翅Thai-style Hot and Sour Soup, 橄榄菜炒饭Fried Brown Rice with Olive Leaves, 宫保猴头Sautéed Monkey Head Mushrooms with Dried Chilli , 露积仙踪Sautéed Brocoflower and Yellow Fungus with Chef’s Special Blended Sauce. Mum loved the food so much yummy yummy haha........
Had an enjoyable day for all of us:}

EU YEN SEN APPOINTMENT

11th September 2009

Today Dear and i went to Eu Yen Sen to consult Physician Xia Rong whom is specialised in fertility matters. It was located at Paragon level 13. Our appointment time was 10.30am but we reached there earlier as it was going to rain heavily.
So we went up to the clinic around 10am and it was very peaceful n clean enviroment. I was asked to register my particulars and the clinic asst need to measure my blood pressure and temperature. Waited about 10 mins, we were called in to see the doctor. A knowlegable phsician, she told us that for my condition , i must be patience and relax enough to conceive. As i missed my menses for this month, dr advised me to checked my pregnancy. So i did the test in the clinic and it was negative. :{ So as the dr calculated my menses cycle, it should be around 45 days which is longer than most women. Haiz.... after since i had etopic, cycle of my menses had become irregular for certain months and from 38 days becomes 45 days. So sad....
So the doctor told me that she will prescibed medications for increasing the strength of my left fallopian tube and 调养身体. She had create a ovulation chart for us and taught us the correct way to count for the ovulation dates. She suggested that i also go for accupuncture twice a month. She gave me 20 days of medication in powder form and have to consume only on the 5th day of my menses. So i have to wait another one or two more weeks to see wheather my menses will arrive. And the total bill came up to $256 which Dear and i have expected cos they are not cheap :} And after that we met up with Apple for lunch as her wkplace is at level 9.

KK APPOINTMENT

09 September 2009

First day of my holiday. We had appointment with Dr Loh Seong Feei at 925am so we woke up quite early to get ready for the appointment.

After our breakfast with father-in-law, we took a bus to KK. Reached there about 910am and we proceed to the registration counter to register. We waited for one and a half hour for the doctor as the nurse told all his patients he had to perform a emergency ops for a patient.

When it was my turn to consult , it was about 11am. We were greeted by a pleasant and smiling Dr Loh and he apologized for making us waited so long. Before we mentioned our problem, he had advised us on the IVF and knew what we were there for. He encouraged us by giving us another 6 months to conceive naturally before we really proceed to IVF. Meantime he will give me some hormones pills and some multivatimins for Dear. And i have to continue my folic acid from my own clinic. Dr Loh inform the staff nurse from IVF unit to explain the whole procedure and information of IVF to us. So we went to the IVF unit after consulting Dr Loh.
A malay staff nurse chatted with us and explained the whole process of IVF. We decided to make appointment in Feb 2010 for it but meantime we hope we can conceive naturally so if pregnant we can just cancel the appointment for IVF.

After that we went to make payments and collected our medicines from the pharmacy. So by everything ended, we went to have lunch at Delifrance before Dear went back to work and i went bk home.

Amount we spent:

Consultation : $85.60 with GST
Medication : $1.70 for my Clomiphene tab for 10 tabs and $38.80 for 2 bottles of Vigor-ace multivitamins tab for dear

HOLIDAYS

7th September 2009

Yeah im going to have holidays soon. Clinic will be closed from 9th Sept till the 17th Sept as boss going to travel. So i have plan how to spend my freedom from work liao.

9th Sept - Going to consult gynae at KK with Dear

10th Sept - Going ION with mummy and the two little devils

11th Sept - Going to consult chinese physician with Dear

12th Sept - Will be going to Malacca with Dear, Jonathan and his gf Pei Jen

13th Sept - Dating with Dear alone

14th Sept - Having lunch buffet with Josephine and cleaner Auntie

15th Sept - Meeting a long time friend Sally for dinner as we have not seen each other for more than ten years.

16th Sept - Will be going to California Gym for excerise and meet up with Apple for dinner

17th Sept - Meet up with Samantha for dinner

and going to resume work on the 18th Sept.... sad....sobsob thats the end of my holidays :{

BABY.......

4th September 2009

Suddenly got a unexplainable feeling of envy that why most of my friends can conceive so easily and i have to go through lots of obsticles to get pregnant. Going to consult so many specliast in this field just to get pregnant is really a oxymoron decision lo.... haiz.......
Friend Irene Sim is pregnant abt 3 months and Irene Ung had just give birth to a little prince on 31st August 2009 congratulations my friends.........

NATAS FAIR

28th August 2009


Dear,me and Jonathan have plan to go Taiwan in Dec so we decided to go to the NATAS fair at Expo. After work, meet Dear for lunch at the Soup Soup and followed by a relaxing high tea at the Cookies Museum at Esplanade.
Around 5.30pm, Jonathan went to fetch parents-in-law and his gf wheras hubby and i went there by MRT as his car does not have enough space for 5 pax. So we arrange to meet at the expo. When we reached, my first impression when i saw his gf was, OMG she looks exactly like one of my friend Peiting. Hmmmmm, after introducing to each other, when we were to went to the expo hall, she insisted not going in with us and she justwent to the John Little sales which was beside the travel hall. We were stunned n surprised but everyone just keep mum about it. We looked around and compared the prices with a few agency and in the end we went back to the agency which we booked for our Japan trip last year. East Asia travel agency. Good price, good flight timing with SIA. So confirm going to Taiwan from 23rd Dec till 29th Dec yeah!!!!!
Around 8 plus, Jonathan's gf called and informed that she has left the expo and went back home. OMG , she had been waiting for 3 hours outside the hall. All of us even stunned and shock. Think she is angry and feeling impatient to wait , well i can understand hw she feels. Just feel that Jonathan was pitiful and is being stuck in the middle but also feels not right about the gal cos she shouldnt just left the place without us. Thought we were be having dinner together but in the end haiz.......
So after the fair, we just ask Jonathan to fetch us to the coffeshop near our home for dinner and he went to meet her after that to clarify the misunderstanding. Good luck bro.......

FRIDAY SPENT WITH HUBBY

21st August 2009

Its Friday hahaha..... decided to watch the movie "WHERE GOT GHOST ? 吓到笑" with Dear. So after work i met up with him at Jurong point and went for dinner before the show started at 8.30pm. We had our meal at a Japanese resturant located in the Japanese street in the new building. We were totally disappointed as the food tasted horrible and for such small portion, we had to pay about $40. So pissed off with it. So after dinner, we just window shopping till the show started. It was such a hilarous and silly show instead of scary lol......... Dear fall asleep halfway through the show ( hmm as usual ).
The show ended at 1030pm so Jonathan came to fetch us for chat n kopi. And he told us lots of shocking news which i wont be able to say in this blog..... hahaha.......
And thats hw my friday was spent with this two silly guys ")

APPOINTMENT WITH SPECIALIST

19th August 2009

On sun, after we went over to Yvonne's place, we went to Eu Yen Sen at Ang Mo Kio to get some bird's nest which Dear bought for me. As we casual talk to the sales asst, she actually recommanded me to consult one of their TCM specialist in Paragon which is specialist in fertitly issues. So after discussing with Dear, we suggested that we will consult the TCM dr and IVF specialist in KK hospital . Juz whack both western n TCM to help us to conceive even though it will cost us a bomb.
So the next day i quickly make an appointment with both KK and Eu Yen Sen and i will be seeing them next month during my off days.....
Hope our wish for a baby Cheng will succeed after seeking help from them.......

Appointment for KK Hospital-
09-09-2009
09:25am
Dr Loh Seong Feei
Head & Senior Consultant (Reproductive Medicine, IVF, Laparoscopy & Hystero)

Appointment for TCM -
11-09-09
10:30am
Xia Rong 夏融医师
Eu Yan Sang Specialist TCM Centre for reproductive health@ Paragon
290 Orchard Road #13-08/09 Paragon
Singapore 238859
Tel: Tel: (65) 6738 9796Fax: (65) 6735 2007
Operating hours:Monday to Friday: 10.00am - 7.00pmSaturday : 9.00am - 1.00pm(Except Sundays & Public Holidays)

JANELLE'S BIRTHDAY

16th August 2009

Birthday gift for little princess Janelle on 16th Auguest 09.
It has been such long time i got to meet up with Yvonne as she was busy with her work n baby Janelle. So Dear n i decided to give them a visit on Janelle's birhday on the 16-08-09 Sun.
After my work, we dropped by to their place in Yishun and we were both so delighted to see each other. OMG, baby Janelle was so adorable with big round eyes. We had a great chat with one another and so glad that baby Janalle was able to wear the beanie n cardigan that i have made for her. But we realised Yvonne looks very tired and shag coping with all the house matters. Anything need my help juz call me i wil be there for you....
Will drop by again to visit them when we r free.

BLOGGER DOWN

9th August 2009

Dun knw whats wrong with my blog. I can only mangage to write but i cant upload any images or edit any other items. Help.....................

DISSAPOINTED AGAIN

4th Auguest 2009

Thought im going to promote to MUMMY this month and today it has disappointed me again :{

28TH BIRTHDAY

BIRTHDAY GIFT FROM BUDDY - LOUIS VUITTION HEART COIN PURSE

BIRTHDAY GIFT FROM BOSS - PHOTO FRAME & KEYCHAIN FROM HELEN KELLY

MADE FROM SAROWASKI CRYSTALS

28th July 2009 -

Happy 28th brithday to myself !!!!!! 又老了一岁!!

Worked until 5pm as dear going to bring me out to celebrate my birthday. We went to have dinner at Siam Reap I resturant at Holland Village. It served Vitnemese food. Reached about 6 plus and the resturant was not crowded at all. Great ambience and not bad service from the service crew. We ordered their specialty dish - Sugarcane stick with prawn paste, chicken spring roll, spicy chicken in basil leaves and pork chop rice. The food were great and it was not as exp as we expected. The bill came up to $72 as we add in two pin of beer.

After the sumptous dinner, we headed to Hadgen-Daz for the lovely dessert- Ice cream.

I ordered a six mini scoopes in a flower basket and three big scoopes for dear. Really taste so satisfied after all these great food. Dear had a hair cut after our dinner before we went back home. It was a lovely n satisfied brithday celebration for me.....

ION ORCHARD

27th July 2009

Yesterday Dear and I went to Ion Orchard for the first time since its opening. It was huge and messy and with some unopen shops. It was 8 levels high and the basement shops were even worse. Quite disappointed with the whole thing;(
We just walked a few rounds and decided to go Bakerzin Deluxe located at Wisma Atria for tea break. Still prefer Ngee Ann City and Takashimaya. After the delicious cakes and drink, we walked down to Robinsons to get some supplements for mum-in-law and myself. Quite cheap as there was a sale.
And finally before we went home, i had a padi and mani done at LADY FINGER located at Orchard Central and it cost me $43 which Dear had paid for me :))

FOND MEMORIES OF THE 80'S

23th July 2009

1. You grew up watching He-man, MASK, Transformers, Silver Hawk and Mickey Mouse. Not to forget Ninja Turtles, My Little Pony and Smurfs too..
2. You grew up brushing your teeth with a mug in Primary school duringrecess time. You will squat by a drain with all your classmates beside you and brush your teeth with a coloured mug. The teachers said you must brush each side 10 times too.
3. You know what SBC stands for.
4. You pay 40 cents for Chocolate or Strawberry MILK every week in class.
5. Kopi-O is not just a kind of beverage to you but also a popular television serial.
6. Pagers are the in thing and numeric numbers are encoded with sweet lovey dovey messeges.
7. SBS buses used to be non-airconditioned. The bus seats are made of wood and the cushion is red. The big red bell gives a loud BEEP! when pressed..There are colourful tickets forTIBS buses. The conductor will check fortickets by using a machine which punches a hole in the ticket.
8. Envelopes given to us to donate to Sharity Elephant every Children's Day.
9. You've probably read Young Generation magazine. You know who'sVinny the little vampire and Acai the constable.
10. You were there when they first introduced MRT here. You went for the first ride with your parents and you would kneel on the seat to see thescenery.
11. Movie tickets used to cost only $3.50.
12. Gals are fascinated by Strawberry Short Cake and Barbie Dolls.
13. You learn to laugh like The Count in Sesame Street .
14. You longed to buy tibits called Kaka (20 cents per pack) and Ding Dang (50 cents per box), that had a toy in it and it changes every week. Not forgetting the 15 cents animal crackers and the ring pop, where the lollipop is the diamond on the ring.
15. KFC used to be a high class restaurant that serve food in plates with bottled ketchup and chilli sauce and also their metal forks and knives.
16. Your English workbooks was made of some damn poor quality paper that was smooth and yellow.
17. CDIS were your bestfriend.
18. The only computer lessons in school involved funny pixellised characters in 16 colours walking about trying to teach you maths.
19. Waterbottles were slinged around your neck and a must everywhere you go.
20. Boys loved to play soccer with small plastic balls in the basketball court.
21. Teng-teng, five stones, chapteh, hentam bola and zero point were all the rage with the girls and boys too...
22. Science experiments includes incubating an egg and watching it hatch into a chick before a fully grown chicken
.23. Kids would be donning black, huge and nerdy looking plastic glasses to school.
24. Drinks cost 10 cents and food was only 50 cents in the school tuckshop.
25. The bookshop does not only sell books but colourful pencils and pens, badminton rackets, balls, marbles, erasers with country flags on them etc.
26. Science was fun with the balsam and the angsana being the most important plants of our lives, guppies and swordtail being the most important fish.
27. Who can forget Ahmad, Bala, Sumei, XiaoMing and John, eternalized in our minds from the textbooks.
28. We carry out experiments of our own to get ourself badges for being a Young Zoologist/Botanist etc.
29. Every Children's day and National day you either get pins or pens with 'Happy Children's Day 1993' or dumb files with 'Happy National Day 1994'.
30. In Primary six you had to play buddy for the younger kids like big sister and brother.
31. We wear BM2000, BATA, or Pallas shoes.
32. Your form teacher taught you Maths, Science and English.
33. The worksheets were made of brown rough paper of poor quality.
34. You went to school in slippers and a raincoat when it rained, and youfind a dry spot in the school to sit down, dry your feet, and wear yourdry and warm socks and shoes.
35. School dismissal time was normally around 1 pm.
36. There would be spelling tests and mental sums to do almost everyday.
37. Your friends considered you lucky and rich if your parents gave you $2or more for pocket money everyday.
38. You see Wee Kim Wee's face in the school hall and principle's room.
39. You freak out when the teacher tells you to line up according to height and hold hands with the corresponding boy or girl.
40. Boys like to catch those gross fighting spiders.
41. Collecting and battling erasers was a pastime for boys.
42. Autograph books were loaded with "Best Wishes", "Forget Me Not", andsmall poems like "Bird fly high, hard catch.Friend like you, hard to forget".
43. Class monitors and prefects loved to say "You talk somemore, I write your name ah!"
44. There were at least 40 people in one class.
45. Large, colourful schoolbags were carried.
46. The worse you would do to a friend was get another friend to stop befriending him/her. "Don't friend him/her."Do you still remember, i do...Spread this heart warming message around, you don't get something like this very often. ;)
47.You went to school in slippers and a raincoat when it rained, and you find a dry spot in the schoolto sit down, dry your feet, and wear your dry and warm socks and shoes.
48.Catching and pepsi-cola was the IN thing, and twist was themagic word.
49.Writing lines and caning hands were common, esp if you failed chinese spelling (caning was actually allowed. no shit).
50.You’ve probably read Young Generation magazine.You know who’s Vinny the little vampire and Acai the constable.
51.You were there when they first introduced the MRT here. You went for the first ride with your parents and you would kneel on the seat to see the scenery.
52.You bought tidbits called beebee (20 cents per pack, 10 cents in MGS), and mamee (30 cents), that had a different sticker in it every time.
53.You carried a lunch box to school but either threw away the food or brought it back home again.
54.The only computer lessons in school involved funny pixellized characters in 16 colours walking about trying to teach you math.
55. All students have to buy a recorder for music classs.
56.You brought every single book to school, even though there was a timetable.
57.You saw Wee Kim Wee’s face in the school hall.
58.Everyone’s wallet used to be the velcro type
59.Hardy Boys, Nancy Drew, The Three Investigators, Famous Five and Secret Seven were probably the thickeststory books you thought you would ever read.
60.The most vulgar thing you said was asshole and idiot and THE MOST EXTREME WAS ‘chicken pie’…you just couldn’t bring yourself to say the hokkien translation.

PROFESSIONAL POST-NATAL MASSAGE

A-MEI'S ALBUM

8th July 2009

Amei's new album "AMIT" finally realised on 26th June 09. But i only managed to get it on 5th July at CD RAMA. Its a different style of songs compared to her previous albums. Quite a number of songs were rock and pop music. Only 4 were sentimantal songs.
Overall i love this album.

ALWAYS SUPPORT U AMEI!!!!!!!!



SONG LISTS -
01
开门见山
02
黑吃黑
03
分生
04
掉了
05
相爱后动物感伤
06
灵魂的重量
07
好胆你就来
08
OK
09
听得见的梦想
10
阿密特
11
彩虹

http://tinyurl.com/n9sbvr (阿妮好适合和大家分享音乐,摄影和影像!真神!) http://plurk.com/p/17geos

http://tinyurl.com/lt48ob (张惠妹为新专辑签售 大赞妈妈是摇滚才女) http://plurk.com/p/17g647

OUR NEW BABY GAL

2nd July 2009

Today i had create our new baby gal based on Dear and my image from "MORPH THING".

Big round eyes and small little pinkish lip. So adorable.

Hope our wish really comes true for this sweetie little baby!!

Link to our baby image :

Baby of 2570684131638468324 and 2570684131639416058 - MorphThing.com

DECIDE TO SEEK TREATMENT FROM ANOTHER CHINESE PHYSICIAN

25th June 2009

After discussing with Dear, we decided to consult the chinese physician at Serangoon next Sat. Hmmm even though we heard feedbacks that he is a very YAYA person, but he is very experience about pregnancy treatments. Hope he can really treats my condition and help us out. Well, will go and try it out and update again.

SICK SICK SICK

24th June 2009

This morning woke up and started to have a bad flu. Kept sneezing throughout the whole day at work. Suddenly "every month good friend" came to visit me and caused me to have bad diarrhoea. OH NO so sick!!!

FLU FLU GO AWAY!!!!

SHOPPING WITH MY MAMA

20th June 2009

Decided to bring mama out for lunch and shopping. As younger brother was at home too, he joined us for the makan. And little Joshua followed us too for the shopping spree. Went to the Soup Spoon again haha cos mama wanted to try the mushroom sandwhich. We went to the branch at Bugis and luckily it was not very crowded as we managed to get a table once we reached there. After lunch, we went shopping till 7pm and bought a pair of Crocs sandel for mama and cost me abt $70. ITS NOT CHEAP LO but nvm la cos it is for mama. Had a great day with mama.

MEET UP WITH COUSIN

13th June 2009

Went for lunch with dear at THE SOUP SPOON at Raffles City mall. We ordered a Velvety mushroom stroganoff, Chicken Tikka wrap and Herbed chicken caesar. It was a delicious and healthy meal. After lunch we went to the IT fair at Suntec City. It was very crowded and most of the items were at discount. We walked for about one hour and left the fair empty handed haha. There were also many sales at the individual exibition hall and we managed to get some towels and bedsheets at a very low price.
As the place was really packed with lots of people, we decided to go to Vivo city to shop instead. Around 6 plus, we met up with Jonathan and Jeslyn ( cousin ) to go for dinner at Mount Faber. After that, we headed to Party World Ktv at Clementi for karaoke and it was so long that we met up for ktv months ago. We sang till 1am and Jonathan fetched us back home individualy. Had a great n wonderful day haha.......

CHINESE PHYSICIAN IN SERANGOON

13th June 2009

This morning a regular patient came and consulted Dr. As we were chatting, she asked me wheather im pregnant because i was wearing a baby doll blouse. Haha than i pressed my tummy and said of cos not, it was so flat haha.... Than we both laughed and she kept asking me to JIA YOU!! Than i mention to her i had etopic before so it was quite difficult to concieve. Than she recommanded me a chinese physician in Serangoon. Than she passed me the namecard, omg, it was the same one that my buddy, Yvonne recommanded to me before. They both mentioned to me that this physician is quite proud and he dont like his patients to ask questions. Hmmm, but they said he is quite well known and specialist in helping patients to conceive. Cos my patient and her sister were seen by him and they both got pregnant within one year and now they had 3 kids each. Hmmmm...... will let Dear know about it and discussed wheather want to go and consult him anot.

BAN CHOON WAH MEDICAL HALL

DR CHONG WAN TAT

BLK 154 SERANGOON NORTH AVE 1
#01-434
TEL : 62887439

OPERATING HOURS:-

MON - SAT
9AM TO 5PM

SUN & PH
9AM - 12PM

SECOND REVIEW OF CHINESE PHYSICIAN

12th June 2009

Took half day leave in the afternoon and went back to Thong Chai Medical to review for my treatment. Waited for nearly one hour before my turn to consult the same physician as before. And i realised there were so many young couples who had fertitly problem. Almost all around my age i guess. I showed the dr my temperature chart and she mentioned that the degrees were at the low side even when im ovulate and thats the reason why im still unable to conceive. And she mentioned plus i have blocked fallopian tube and it will take a very long time before i can be pregnant. SO SAD!!! And since i dont have any side effects on the herbs that she prescibed previously, she mentioned she will change to a stronger herbs and asked me to continue. And now have to take 4 times a week instead of twice per week.
After consulting, i went back to Mum's place as i bought lots of food to celebrate Father's day in advance. So fun and crowded with the two little kids at home. Everyone had a full and satisfied dinner. And Dear asked mum wheather she got anyone to recommand to help me massgae my tummy and she mentioned that her friend whom is registered n licence beautician and she is very good at tummy massage. So she called her up and make an appointment with her next week for me to go down to her home to massage. Hopes this massage will also helped with my conceiving.

GAINING WEIGHT

10th June 09

This morning i went to weigh myself and i got a shock! I was 66kg!!! Nearly faint when saw the number. In my whole life i nv weight so heavy lo despite i do excercise twice a week!!! Really miss my weight last year only 50kg. Sad Sad Sad!! Must go and find out whats wrong with me.

WHO IS IN THE RIGHT??

9th June 2009

It was a very hot and sunny afternoon and i think the doctor's mood was the same as the weather. The wife of the patient called up to enquire about simple medical checkup for her husband whom is going oversea to work but she did not know what type of checkups and investigations were to be done. So i suggested that maybe he just need a simple PREE-EMPLOYMENT checkup which no lab test to be done. So around 3 plus the patient came and through conversation with the doctor, they had a big arguement. This were what we heard from the room:-

Patient:" Hi Dr, ya im here to consult u for my flu and throat and as well i need to do a checkup to state that im fit enough to travel to thailand to work as i will be posted over there."
Dr: " What tpye of checkups u want to do? And what are the test to be done? "
Patient:" Well, just a checkup la to say im fit. No need any lab test or what and by the way dun raise your voice at me. "
Dr:" I didnt raise my voice at you. Im just asking. I will not know what type of medical investigation u wan me to do."
Patient: " NVM I WILL CALL MY COMPANY TO CHECK AND IF YOU CANT DO THAN FORGET IT! NO BIG DEAL!!!" ( In a very sacarstic and attitude voice )
Patient called company and ask his staff to fax over the sample of form to us.
After 5 mins of waiting, we recieved the fax and passed it to the doctor.
Dr: " Ask the patient to come in! Ya i received your fax is just a normal checkups and u need to do a blood test to test for HIV. "
Patient: " Well, even if i need a blood test but u are still in the wrong. If you had a bad day in the morning, it your problem. Dont vent your anger on me. Im your patient U KNOW!!! Hw could a doctor shout at patient!!!! SO RIDICULOUS!!!!!
Dr : " Well if you think im shouting at you, than let it be. The relationship btw a doctor and patient has break down and now im telling you i will not want to do the checkup for you and u just leave the clinic!! I have the right to reject any checkups because it does not corncerns your health problems!!!!!"
Patient: " What type of doctor is he !!!! SO RIDICULOUS!!! SCOLD PATIENT AND ............."
( He just keep grumbled and walked out of the clinic )

Josephine and i just keep shaking our heads and remained speechless.

So who is in the right and fault ????

BAD MONDAY

8th June 09

Reached work place at 8.15am as usual and patients started to queue up outside the clinic for consultation. ( AS USUAL FOR MONDAYS ) So Josephine and i attended to them while waiting for the doctor to arrive. Around 8.35am Dr arrived and started to consult the patients.

As i opened the casecard drawers, i knocked onto it and got a cut on my thigh. Ooch it was really painful. The bleeding only stopped when i covered it with a gauze n plasters. OMG i already got a cut last week now came another one so damn sway. ::((

As patients came in non stop since morning, while i was preparing drugs for dispensing at the back, a lady walked into the clinic and ask to use the washroom. Josephine just allowed her to use without asking wheather she was just borrowing the toilet or wanted to conuslt the doctor. As there was a rule set by the doctor, the washroom is basically only meant for staff and patients for hygience purpose. Immediately i came out to ask her was she going to consult the doctor, she just answered YES and walked straight to the washroom. Well, as much as i guessed, she was just telling lies. And after a while, the woman came out from the toilet and pretending to quiry on our health screen packages and said she will consider about it.

At this time, the doctor just shouted very loudly from his room saying:

" Dun entertain her she is just telling lies. She just wants to use the toilet for free. Ask her to get out !!!! "

With so many patients sitting at the waiting area, he just screamed at his top of voice.

He just barge out of his room to check the toilet and he shouted again :

" THE TOILET IS IN A BIG MESS !!! WHAT THE HELL SHE HAS DID TO IT !!!!"

All the patients just stared at him stunned, speechless. And he just scolded at the woman and chased her out of the clinic. Later when all the patients left, he blamed me for letting her use. OH COME ON, im not the one who allowed her to use lor!!!!

And he told me off by saying : " Why you let her use the toilet wheras u should know she is telling lies!!! You should have scold her infront of everyone let her embarressed!!! U are not harsh enough, i really felt cheated to let her use!!!!! " PAINZ!!!!!!!!!!!

What type of character and attitude is he!! Being a doctor, he is not gracious and kind enough towards people. He had a bad attitude and he wanted the staff to behave like him. I was super pissed off with him and shouted at him dun blame me for everything im not the one who let her use the toilet. And if he really LOVE the toilet so much, than just locked it up and dun allow anyone to use!!! I just vent my anger on banging the drawers and throwing things around. Although im also bad tempered, but im not as bad character as him!!!!

He felt so unhappy that i throw temper, he just went in and out the toilet and slamming hard on the door. But too bad Josephine and i simply ignored him.
From that moment onwards, we did not talk to each other for the whole day till i knocked off from work.

MEET UP WITH APPLE

5th Feb 2009

Meet up with Apple for dinner at Shokudo Japanese Pasta and Pizza @ Orchard Cinelesiure for dinner. We waited about 15 mins before we got a table as it was a long queue. Ordered Fried Ebi Spagetti in tomato sauce for Apple and Mixed Seafood tomato cream Spagetti based for myself and a Teriyaki Chicken with cheese pizza to share. We ate and chatted for about 2 hours plus and ended with a delicious Rum and Raisin ice-cream with waffle. Really enjoyed the meal and meet up with her. And coincindence dear was with his colleuges at the Kbox at Cinelesiure so Apple accompanied me to wait for him till the karaoke session end n went back home together.

SECOND DOSE OF CHINESE MEDICINE

3rd June 09

Went to buy my second dose of chinese medicine prescibed by Dr Loh Kin Yin from the chinese medicine hall near my workplace. The uncle told me the herbs was quite mild and not very exp only $5 per pkt because Thong Chai medicial will not give too expensive herbs to their patients. Hmmmm........ went back home to tell dear and he said in that case we shall go to Eu Yen Sen to consult their physician instead as he worried that the medicine is too mild for me and does not take any effects.

郭富城 ''舞林正传'' 世界巡回演唱会09

30th May 09 -

Fiaanlly waited for this concert. It is one of the best concert Aaron Kwok i had ever watched. The stage was 450 degree turn with fabulous lighting, band members, dancers and of cos AARON himself. Everyone was really impressed of his dancesteps and he had improved alot with his cantonese-slang-mandrine haha..... He intereacts with the audiences very well and creacts jokes and sang lots of his popular hits. N he even went down from the stage to shake hand with the audiences. But of cos this was a privellage to the exp tickets ( $248 )
Everyone followed with him to sing. Great Job Aaron and dear n i will definately be back for ur concert again in future !!!

SEEK CHINESE PHYSICAN FOR HELP

28th May 09

Today dear and I woke up early to queue up to seek help from chinese physcian. We went to Singapore Thong Chai medical insitution. Reached there about 8 plus and there were quite long queue. After registration, waited about 20 mins to see the doctor. We consulted Dr Loh Kin Yee. She gave us lots of advice and was very patience towards our enqiuries. She told us she will prescibed 2 doses of medicines for me to consume and need to review her one week later. Its a charity organisation so the fees for the consultation and medications were free. And it is up to the patient to donate whatever amount to the donation box. Will be going back to the dr next week. Will update the info again to my blog......

HSG RESULT

On 14th May 09 -

Dear and i took one day leave to go back to KK to get my HSG result. Saw Dr Tan at 11am and she told us that my left fallopian tube was normal but right fallopian tube may be obstructed. That was partly the reason of why we cant conceive. She suggested a few ideas and it was up to us to decide which to choose.

First suggestion -

To have a operation to unblocked the right fallopian but sucess rate is only 30 to 50 %.
If sucessful, the tube will be fully unblocked. But if unsucessful, the tube will be totally blocked and the situation will be worse than before the operation.

Second suggestion -

Superovulation & Intrauterine Insemination Programme ( SO-IUI )

It is a procedure where two to three ovarian follicles (eggs) are stimulated and brought to maturation and ovulation.
It is usually combined with intrauterine insemination in which the prepared sperms are placed directly into the uterus.
This procedure will enhance conception for the couple.
Sucess rates improves the chances of conception for infertility couples and the average sucess rate is about 12-15 percent per cycle or 26 percent per patient after 3 cycles.
The overall sucess rate varies with the cause of infertility and the age of the female partner. For some conditions, the pregnancy rate can be as high as 36 percent per patient.
Risks and dissapointments was that the cycle may be discontinued because of poor response or over esponse with too many follicles developing. And includes misscarriages and etopic pregnancies.

Third suggestion -

In-Vitro Fertilization ( IVF ) / Intra-Cytoplasmic Sperm Injection ( ICSI )

IVF involves putting the eggs and sperms together. By natural selection, the egg will usually allow only one sperm to enter and this usually leads to the fertilization process in the lab. After fertilization, the embryos are allowed to grow for a short period of time before placed into the uterus. A sucessful pregnancy can be confirmed about two weeks later.
ICSI involves injecting a single sperm into each egg to allow fertilitzation to occur in the lab.
Sucess and unsucess are quite similar to SO-IUI.

Fourth suggestion -

To try on our own for another 6 months based on my left fallopian tube which is perfectly normal.

So of cos our decison will be the fourth one. If by end of 09 we still cant conceive, than we will try other methods. Telling myself and dear, we must jia you and relaxed more and enjoyed ourselves in order to be even more healthy.

ALL THE BEST TO OURSELVES !!!! HAHAHAHA!!!!

THE DAY FOR HSG EXAMINATION

On 24th Apr 09 -

The most dreadful day had come. My appt time was 09:30 in the morning. Dear accompanied me to KK hospital. Registered myself at the xray dept and one of the staff nurse asked me to change to the hospital robe while waiting for my turn to do the test. Five minutes later, i was accompanied by two nurses and greeted warmly by Dr Wong Yen Ling Jocelyn whom will be in charge of doing the whole procedure. I was asked to lie on the couch and Dr Wong explained the whole preocdure of what she was going to do to me. My hands was trumbling and i could feel my heartbeat pulmping very quickly. When she started to insert the tube to my womb, i just felt a bit uncomfortable. But once the small amount of contrast medium that administered through the tube to outline the inner surface of the womb 7 fallopian tube, i could feel the pain and it was like someone going to ripe open my womb and tears started to flow down to my cheecks. I screamed very loudly as i couldnt tolerate the pain. The nurses and dr kept comforting and consoled me. This lasted for about half an hour and i could feel numbness on my two thighs. The dr told me i would enocountered stomache cramps n bleeding for the next two days. I was told to dress up and waited for another half an hour in case any side effects happened to me. Dear was with me at the waiting area. As the nurse saw me and mentioned that i was well enough to go back home, i started to feel cramps on my stomache. Worse than menses cramp lo..... :{ Immediately went to the pharmacy to get some painkillers to ease the pain. Went for lunch and back home to rest after that.

RESULTS WERE BACK

19th Mar 09 -

We went back to KK to get our results for the previous tests. Everything was fine for dear. But for me, haiz.... small little fibroid was found on my fallopian tube and it was suspected that it had a thick nodular internal septations but no obvious internal vascularity is seen within. Which means that there is a possibiltity that my right fallopian tube was blocked and it was due to the etopic preg. Dr Tan suggested i must go for another investiagtion which was called the HYSTEROSALPINGOGRAPHY ( HSG ).

What is HSG?

This is a special X-ray examination of the womb. This structure is usually not seen well on plain X-ray examination.

The patient will be required to lie on the xray couch throughout the examinations. After cleaning the vagina with antiseptic solutions, the doctor will insert a fine tube through the vaginal into the womb. A small amt of contrast medium (X-ray dye) will be administered through the tube to outline the inner surface of the womb and the fallopian tube. Some lower abdominal cramp may be experienced at this stage.

The doctor will observe the flow of the contrast medium under TV control and x-rays will be taken to document the procedure.

I had no choice but to go for it as i knew it will be a painful procedure to go through. So i will make another appointment with the radiology dept for the test.

CHECKUP AT KK

5th Feb 09

Dear & I decided to go KK hospital for further checkups since so many months of conceiving without any good news after recovering from etopic ops last year. Consulted Dr Tan Kim Teng, a senior consultant from O&G dept. Told her about our problems and she suggested we went for serveral test. She suggested i need to go for ultrasound pelvis to make sure there wont be any problem occured to my womb which was related to the ops. And dear had to go for semen analysis to make sure he will be fine. So after consulting her, i went straight to the radiology dept for the ultrasound and the nurse had instructed dear that he will had to make appointment for his test on another day.